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“It’s amazing how jerks can get girls Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing To meet girls they lavish their undying love They act nice, friendly, and they listen; until they get into what they’re after Meanwhile, the girl tries

to change the jerk into a nice guy, but the jerk will always be a jerk.” -Anonymous

As the author of this book, I believe nice guys can finish first But, they just have to change their approach with women…

On the matter of nice guys VS jerks I wish I could say that the statement was ridiculous and of course the nice guys in the end will get the girl, but it's simply not true

Women want someone who excites them, makes them feel special and gives them a thrill on a regular basis They want somebody who sends them on an

emotional rollercoaster

This book is for all those guys who are sick of ending up as a girl’s “emotional tissue” that they

eventually just throw away It’s for the guy who are just tired of hearing the continuous excuses women come up with, so they don’t have to talk to you or take your relationship much further…

This book will cover every aspect of how a true player is successful with women We’ll dig deep into these issues, with advice and information you can use the next to you see that hot babe sitting across or walking right by you!

The #1 Secret to Attracting Women

The art of attracting women consists of 10%

projection of success, 10% appearance, 10%

intelligence, and 70% charm In a study conducted

by the University of Waterloo, 85% of the

correspondents expressed that charm was the

principle reason for their attraction to the

opposite individual

Some people are born with the gift of being

naturally charming But most people lack the skill

or just never learned the proper techniques through social communication This does not mean a person cannot learn how to be charming All one needs, is

to understand what people find charming and

practice it over and over again, until it becomes naturally part of their personality

Do Ladies Find YOU Attractive?

When asked, most women say they want a nice

sensitive guy that will buy them flowers and

basically act like one of their girlfriends They like the idea of getting flowers and having a

sensitive guy to talk to about their problems

Note: A lot of men end up becoming that guy, the

guy that girls talk to about their problems But the relationship usually doesn’t get any farther than being just friends

All women will tell you they want to date the nice guy or that they can never seem to find a nice guy

to date

The problem is, this isn't exactly correct These women aren’t lying when they say they want these things when they think logical they do, because

it makes sense But remember, women don’t choose logically what they are attracted to

So, when they think about it consciously Women want a guy that will buy them flowers and talk to them when they feel down But in reality, their instinct is to like a guy who will take control and act like a man should

So what qualities do women want in men?

What they've always wanted and always will want Women want real men, men that are in control and don’t ask for permission to do anything They don’t want to be in charge, they want someone to be in charge of them

I know this sounds harsh, but it's true

Here are some examples, have ever noticed that

When you give a girl a compliment or tell her how beautiful she is she shies away from you?

This probably happens every time you try and start

a conversation But when you

Notice a flaw about her, she will get more involved

in the conversation and take you more seriously

Also, have you noticed

When you spoil a girl by buying her gifts, taking her to an expensive dinner, she usually thanks you the evening and goes out with another guy?

But, If you simply go for a quick drink and act like you are equals she feels attracted to you, because you're not catering to her every need

Have you noticed when

You call a girl often after a date and she seems distant and funny

But, when you don't call her and you act like

you're busy and could live with her or without her, she won't stop calling you

The truth is women don’t want to be catered to, spoiled or treated like princesses This is what women want from a man

First of all, women want you to be confident in your self So, if you approach a girl and seem shy and awkward, that is a turn off

Women want you to lead the way, not the other way around They don’t want to talk about what you are going to do, they just want you to lead the way and

do it

They want you to keep it cool and NOT get

emotional So if you are the kind of guy that has a hard time keeping his emotions to himself, you are going to have to work on it

They want you to be fun and entertaining, not

boring and dull Just because you are into

collecting stamps or collecting model planes, it does not mean you have to bore the poor girl to death about your hobby

Women want you to make them laugh So again, you have to be entertaining and fun

They don’t want to know everything about you all at once, they want to wonder So, no matter how

tempting it may be you don’t have to tell them you whole life story Women want to keep guessing

They want you to have more to talk about then “the game last night”, they want you to be interesting

They want you to be headed somewhere, they want you

to have a life goal or something you are trying to achieve In other words, they want you to know what you want from life

Practicing Your Inner Charm

Charm is simply the art of letting someone know that you feel good about them, without embarrassing them or asking anything of them in return And this

is really attractive The following checklist

should help you accomplish your goals:

- Charm has an ally in eye contact Never forget

to look into someone's eyes when speaking to them

- Charming someone includes complimenting them What you should compliment is relatively easy to figure out, just figure out what would it take to make you feel complimented, and do the same to

others

- Charm has to be sincere It is strongest when you believe what you're saying

- Charm is done pleasantly and lightly

- The secret to charm is to be selfless You

should not ask for anything, not even feedback

- Charm isn't sexual It's just warmth

- Charm is exerting strong confidence

- Charm at its simplest just says, "You are terrific Thank you for letting me bask in your glow."

For a person not to come off as rehearsed, one needs to practice So where do you start? Any place Practice on your mother, sister, dog, neighbor, dad, your boss, teacher, friends, the stranger on the street-corner You will also be amazed at how charming people will be in return Don't forget to smile It makes you look alive

Set the Bait and Let Her Come to You

For a woman to know that you are interested, she must be aware of it If she is not, then absolutely nothing will happen You therefore have to take a risk This is where the chase begins

Pick the woman that you are interested in, wherever you may be May I suggest that you choose your lady early and concentrate only on her the whole time you are there If you start looking around too

much, you will give her the impression that you are looking for anyone to sleep with After you find her, begin by looking for body language signs, such

as eye contact, a smile, hair touching, etc

If you get these signs from her, you must move

quickly Most men just wait around eyeballing the lady the whole time By the time they get the

nerves to go talk to her, either someone else moved

in, or she'll think you are some perverted stalker because you gawked too much

Okay, now you made your move You initiated the conversation Now how do you make sure you keep the conversation going, and ensure she remains

interested? Spoil her with attention by asking her all types of questions regarding her life No sex-

related questions please Instead, talk about her likes, her education, movies, even the current awkward situation The important thing is to not mention anything about yourself, unless of course she asks you to If she does, (this usually means she's interested) please remember to be brief and move the topic back to focus to her

Once the conversation deepens, it is okay to

mention that you'd like to keep in contact with her, and ask for a phone number!

Don’t Just Sit There…Call Her Up!

The first phone call should be at least two days after the encounter The conversation should

revolve around how much fun you had with her, and how impressed you were with her personality In other words, compliment her like crazy Make sure that the first phone call does not last more than twenty minutes It is crucial that you end the

first phone call first If she ends the

conversation, the ball is in her court The

conversation should end with you inviting her out for a coffee

For Future Phone Call Notice: A lot of times when

girls call me, I have noticed that when they call they will use the, "Hi It's me!" line

Don't fall for this!

Even though you may have Caller ID or recognize their voice, NEVER acknowledge that you

automatically know who it is It's a test to see if how whipped you are

So when a girl calls you and says, "Hi It's me", respond with, "Who is this?" This throws her off and keeps her wondering whether she is the only girl you are seeing!

The First Encounter, The First Date

One of the most common pieces of advice women and even men give to people looking to become better in the dating scene is "JUST BE YOURSELF"

Some people see this advice as wrong because "just

be yourself" requires no work, and without work one cannot get anything in life These people that feel trying to improve oneself is the way to go in the dating scene

Let me give you my insight on this topic

First of all, depending on who says "just be

yourself" changes the meaning

For example, if a novice says "just be yourself" he means to do nothing and just let fate take its

course On the other hand, if an experienced guru

on dating says "just be yourself" then it has a totally different meaning

Being yourself, your true self that nature intended you to be, requires a lot of work It requires that you first remove all the doubt and fear you have of women, for when you have fear and doubt then you are not being yourself It means removing all guilt

you have: guilt of hurting other people, guilt of doing something wrong

Hence, "just be yourself" means to remove all bad emotions you carry inside of you so that you see your true self, and when that happens, you become more attractive to women

20 Golden Dating Rules

Need a prep up before your big date? Here are my quick list of 20 rules you should keep in mind But don’t knock yourself silly for not remembering all of them It should come naturally…

1) Be confident

2) Teach yourself to smile!

3) Good eye contact

4) Say her name a lot during conversation

5) Say hello

6) Don't be afraid to position yourself near her 7) Don't let conversation go on too long; you want her to want more

8) Be polite, but not needy

9) Give sincere compliments

10) Anytime you make eye contact, keep looking at her: Make her break it first!!

11) Always try to look good, even wearing a

baseball cap!

12) Don't become a girlfriend with women you are interested in!

13) Don't be her therapist for her problems

14) Model yourself after Clark Gable - attitude, confidence, charisma, looking suave

15) Any mistakes you made in the past, learn from them, and don't let them happen again!!

16) Make the women feel special

17) When you see that you are in a position to close the deal, close don't procrastinate!

18) When talking on the phone, don't stay on for more then 10-15 minutes, seem like you're busy, even if you are not

19) It's ok to sometimes play hard to get, but don't overdo it

20) Always believe in yourself, no matter the situation

Getting to know the person in front of

you!

It sounds simple, but if you remember this when you're in the real world talking to a real woman, you'll loosen up, and start genuinely try to get to know her, and she'll FEEL that

If she feels like you are actually interested in her, she'll become MUCH more interested in YOU I've got a few great tips for you to use next time you talk to a nice looking girl

1 Notice what she gives you

Here's what I mean If, during the conversation, she mentions that she went bowling last week with her best friend, then you should ASK her about it She's giving you a way to ask her about her

personal interests, and she's hoping you'll pick up

on that, and run with it

Remember, take what she gives you, and use it as an entry way into a deeper conversation about personal interests, instead of being stuck in endless small talk (which she doesn't want either)

2 Ask her direct questions about her personal

Don't be afraid to just go ahead and ask her about herself I know this sounds like common sense, but

do you DO it in real life? If you see that she's wearing an interesting necklace, ask her about it

If you saw her playing pool before, ask her who taught her how to play

The point is you want to talk about personal stuff, not surface level crap Start with small talk, but move out of it after a few minutes, or she'll get bored of the conversation

3 Don't ask for a date OFFER a date instead

You're not a child who has to ask permission

her know that you're interested in make an offer to spend time together at some place interesting

Lots of people make offers to you every day Some you accept, some you don't Here's an every day example:

When you go through the drive thru at a fast food place, and you order a sandwich, what do you almost ALWAYS hear? Usually you'll hear something like,

"You can upgrade that to a combo meail for only a dollar more Would you like to do that today?"

It's kind of the same thing with talking to women She's already ordered the sandwich by having a nice conversation with you right now You can simply let her know that you enjoy her company, and you'd like

to offer her a chance to continue getting to know each other If she says no, it doesn't have

anything to do with you as a person It's just not something she's interested in, just like you're not interested in buying the combo meal sometimes

Here's why I bring this up Those fast food places that offer the combos with each order have

dramatically increased their total sales volume by juat making that simple offer

You could dramatically increase the amount of women you date just by offering each one that you're

interested in a chance to get to know you even

better If one says no who cares? The next 2 will say yes But ALWAYS make the offer

The 14 year old kid at the drive thru isn't afraid

of you saying "No thanks, and you shouldn't be

afraid of some woman saying the same thing

Remember, talking to women is not a sporting

competition that you either win or lose She's a real person who's giving you an opportunity to get

to know her She won't always make it so easy for you, but just keep trying

Focusing on "getting a result" from the interaction

is a huge mistake It makes her feel like you see her as a "task" that needs to be completed instead

of a person

Do your best to get to know her, and forget about getting phone numbers and emails When you become genuinely interested in the women you talk to, the phone numbers and emails will pile up faster than you can count them!