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How to be successful in life What we call life is a very complex affair.. So in order to be successful in all these he has to develop certain qualities... He must be able to look after h

How to be successful in life

What we call life is a very complex affair It is not simply

eating Reproducing and finally dying Every creature does

these But in the case of man he has to lead a highly

complicated life It is like going through a maze He is a

social being He has to earn, make a home Look after his

people Attend to his obligations to the society and the

government So in order to be successful in all these he

has to develop certain qualities

What do we mean by saying a man is successful? If in his

occupation he can do satisfactorily both for himself and

others then he is successful He must be able to look after

his people and bring up good children If he becomes a

professional man like an engineer, doctor or lawyer,

making money should not be the only criterion; he must

also able to satisfy his clients and be honest at it

In order to be successful one should develop certain

qualities At first he must realize his purpose; in other

words what he would like to be This is the crux of the

problem, for the choice does not come to him Parents

decide it very often for them Let us suppose he decides to

be somebody in his life Once having decided he must

work or attaining certain standard in that line Only hard

work would make him fit for the job It is rightly said that it

is 5% inspiration and 95% perspiration One must deserve

before desiring One must remember one’s education

does not stop with the school or college It is a life long

process Professional people must keep themselves up to

date

Then one must get on with others In the chess board of

life one may find himself in any position; it maybe the all

powerful queen or simply pawn It must be remembered

that given the chance, even a pawn can destroy a queen

This mean in a complex society, everyone find oneself in a

particular position; there maybe some above and some

below One need not be favouring and flattering those

above and be arrogant with those below ” what can I do

for you” it is correct attitude and having done it go about

your duty In getting on with others sweet temperament is

really an asset; then only other will like to transact with

one One must not be easily irritable nor give irritants to

others Then one must be reliable One must be reliable

One maybe clever but is he is not reliable, he can not

achieve success in a great measure because others will

have very little to do with him

Another important quality that would make up for success

is doing things then and there Procrastination is the thief

o time Postponement of doing things means swelling of

work for the next day A small chink maybe easily closed

today but tomorrow it maybe late If we analyse the life of

successful people we could easily see they have been

through and never postponed doing things

Still another quality is not to argue By pointing out that, he

has been wrong you are not going to improve matters, on

the other hand you can help him correct, arguing not only

takes away precious time but also cause irritation

Especially one’s superior may not like arguing Instead of

argument, one must be able to meet the situation

something like this “you maybe right, sir” or “this is alright”,

but “what about our alternative” and so on

One must be capable of learning from experience One

must be able to learn from the mistakes of others Only

when individuals fail to learn from the past mistakes, they

are ruined History is replete with examples