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Even have a little ritual together through texting -perhaps telling her one thing you love about her every single day.. Though you may not write her poetry or sing her love songs, you ca

Dear Friend,

Before I show you HOW to text your lover, let’s review WHY it’s a great idea to text

her so you understand the enormous value texting can add to your relationship

Texting allows you to lead her mind and inject more polarity into your

relationship Polarity is the masculine/feminine pull - the magnetic attraction

of opposites

Texting can arouse her all day long through her heart and mind first.

Texting is a “channel” for giving her the attention she wants

from you You can be present with her emotionally, when you

can’t be present with her physically

Texting is a new form of erotic communication, which is

one of the 5 Pillars of Passionate Relationships that

keeps getting better - what we call the “upward pleasure spiral.”

Sexy Texting

Done For You

You can reinforce ALL FIVE of the pillars of

a passionate relationship with

texting Plus, texting is a

very efficient means of

intimate communication

- a quick, “I adore you,

darling,” can make her

happy all day long It’s

fast, easy and she will

enjoy the novelty of

texting immensely

PLAYFUL

One of the most delightful things

about texting each other is the joy

you get from simply playing

around with each other through

SMS You can text goofy jokes,

silly pictures, photos of yourself

during the day to entertain her and

lift her out of the doldrums of her day

MINDFULNESS

Putting your attention on your woman is the first step in a

mindful, proactive relationship She wants your presence,

your affection and you can give it to her from anywhere you

are in the world

“What animal is always trying to catch

it’s breath?” “A panther.”

“Baby, you turn me into a panther,

you are breathtakingly beautiful to me!”

“

The 5 Pillars of

Passionate Relationships

Honesty and vulnerability — hallmarks of mindfulness that make a relationship

passionate — can be communicated beautifully via text

DECLARATIONS

You can text her that you love her You can acknowledge special occasions This

is very important to women Even have a little ritual together through texting

-perhaps telling her one thing you love about her every single day You can

send her pictures of the two of you on your last romantic outing Images

of you two together create meaning in her life Imagery grounds a

woman in her relationship in a way that most men don’t need to feel close

to their lady Think about texting her silly and loving pictures often

SENSATE CONNECTION

You can even create sensate connection - touching her,

having her experience her sense of smell, of vision, of aural

pleasure - with texting

First of all, when she feels the vibration of your incoming

text, she’ll get a thrill running through her body She might

have butterflies in her stomach or a moment of excitement

knowing you are thinking about her Moreover, you CAN and

should use sensory words in your texts Describing textures,

colors, smells, sounds, images all increase the value of your

texts to her, as you’ll see in the examples below

Last night when I held you while we watched

TV made me remember why I love you so dearly

You are my woman, my lady, my love

I will protect and take care of you forever, my darling.”

“

Sweetie, I just want you to know

you are on my mind today

Remembering your sweet smile

at dinner last night warms my heart.”

“

EROTIC COMMUNICATION

Romance, sensuality, seduction, intimacy and lovemaking are enhanced

through erotic communication When you want to seduce a woman, one of

the most effective channels available is erotic communication Where men are

more visual in general, women are more auditory We like to hear you tell us you

love us We like sweet nothings whispered in our ear We like sensual bedroom talk

(those of us who have not been shamed out of enjoying it by societal or cultural

killjoys)

That’s why poetry and love songs have been written for women throughout the

millennia We love to be aurally pleasured

For example, this text is a twist on an Edgar Allan Poe poem called, A Dream Within

A Dream

Take this kiss upon the brow And in parting from you now

Is everything we see or seem But a dream within a dream?

Good night light of my life.”

A woman’s feeling of passion is ignited through her heart and mind

first, and then through the sensual arousal of her body Though

you may not write her poetry or sing her love songs, you can

approximate this thrill through romantic text messages

AROUSE HER ALL DAY WITH TEXTING

Texting is an excellent way to make love to your woman all

day, even when you’re apart And it arouses her even before

you touch her

She is like a fire You are like a light switch - ready on

command She needs tinder and kindling (sweet little texts

that get her started first), her flames fanned, embers

stoked, wood added to her fire (more romantic texts) - until

“

As Calle, author of The Marriage You Want says, “Don’t try to close the

deal all at once.”

I got a blank text from my wife the other day

I asked, “Why did you send me a blank text?”

She said, “Because I’m not talking to you.”

“The typical guy moves in on his wife and tries to drive his foreplay all the way to home to

intercourse in one pass, and that’s not how you do it What should he do instead? It will get

you much better results with your woman if you move her toward a sexual encounter, and

then suddenly drop your interest and move away as if you’ve just lost all your desire for

sex That gives your woman a chance to chase and pursue you.” —

‘CATCH AND RELEASE’ INCREASES DESIRE

Texting is a cat and mouse game played best with patience Every masculinity expert

gives the same advice — Catch and Release peaks her desire for you If the energy

has gone flat in your relationship, this will bring back some excitement

Have you ever walked up to your woman, looked her in the eyes, kissed

her and released her? Did it leave her wanting more? Yes it did Holding

back a bit increases her interest, makes it a game worth playing.

Transfer the catch and release concept to your texting strategy Text

her and then make her wait a little to enhance her interest.

Don’t require that your lady responds to you by texting back.

Don’t get upset if your texts don’t get a response at first She

may be uncomfortable with the concept at first until she sees it’s

a fun, new way to create intimate connection.

One guy told me, “I texted her and she didn’t respond, but when

I got home I got a very hot kiss that night!”

In order to create the energy of desire, you must enter into this

strategy with a playful loving approach and escalate from there.

“

Escalation goes like this:

Playful>Romantic>Sensory>Sensual>Seductive>Sexual

Don’t skip steps or she’ll get upset, feel pushed or manipulated and you’ll be

leaving a lot of pleasure on the table

Enjoy the journey Start very small Begin with playful and then loving texts first

before you intensify your ardor

The texts toward the end of this eBook are wildly sexual and classically poetic Don’t

start with text that are overtly sexual, as women like to be slowly awakened to their desire

SPARK HER IMAGINATION

You want to spark her imagination with the words you choose

Imagine you are a woman reading these texts Get in her world, appreciate her

perspective How would SHE like to be romanced via text? What would be sensual

to her?

Focus on sensual language and imagery that evokes sensation - touch, smell,

sound, taste, visual - even where you bodies are in relation to each other

Sensually descriptive language you can use includes:

Bear, ripe, supple, soft, flowing, swaying, musky, live, sleek,

feline, hard, brawny, tender, moist, dewy, creamy, silky, satiny,

sheer, titillating, daring, eager, sinful, naughty, forbidden, raw,

kiss, caress, touch, tickle

Sheets, satiny, smooth, velvety, warm, heated, cool, night,

moonlight, golden, glowing, whisper, hush, glistening,

illuminate, tender, succulent

Tropical, hot, steamy, sultry, sizzling, smoldering, torrid,

unleashed, explosive

Lingering, leisurely, luxurious, delicious, delectable, relish,

This is the language of romance novels, of chick lit and chick flicks,

THIS sensual language is what women consume with gusto

If you give her this kind of erotic communication via texting, even if you can’t

speak this way to her, she will know you think in this erotic way about her, which

warms her to you

- Many men are at a loss for words, but can write and text very eloquently

- Other men are shy and like using texting to express themselves more deeply

- Yet other men are verbally comfortable but don’t feel like good writers

The “done for you” texts in this document are examples that you can mirror, modify

or copy and paste - whatever works for you

CONNECT HER TO NATURAL BEAUTY

The most important thing to know about wooing your woman is to connect your

woman to beauty whenever possible Connect her to her femininity, to her

humanity, to the Goddess inside her This will awaken her to her own sexual

potential in a way that almost nothing else will do Sensual beauty reminds

her of her humanity, her time on this earth where she can

enthusiastically consume all life’s experiences This is what

turned-on women do Your texting, if well dturned-one, can turn her turned-on, inflame

her to her potential, to lead her to feel to the feelings she wants

to feel with you, which are romance, passion and excitement

When you text your woman more classic, romantic verbiage,

you are leading the relationship, setting the tone, creating

space for sensuality between you

You’re helping her escape the doldrums of the day or the

tensions that she may have or the self-doubts she is

harboring about whether you love her enough for her to

fully surrender her heart and her body to you

Use sensual texts to lead her into her sensuality as a woman

To connect with you passionately as her lover

As Adam Gilad, my dear friend and the best teacher of erotic

communication in the world says,

The Songs of Solomon are some of the great classics of erotic

communication Sensual language is as old as the ages

Behold, thou art fair, my love; behold, thou art fair; thou hast

doves’ eyes within thy locks: thy hair is as a flock of goats, that

appear from mount Gilead

Thy teeth are like a flock of sheep that are even shorn, which

came up from the washing; whereof every one bear twins,

and none is barren among them

Thy lips are like a thread of scarlet, and thy speech is

comely: thy temples are like a piece of a pomegranate

within thy locks

Thy neck is like the tower of David builded for an armoury,

whereon there hang a thousand bucklers, all shields of

mighty men

Thy two breasts are like two young roes that are twins, which

Connect her inner beauty to her outer beauty If you get

caught at the level of, “You have a beautiful body part,” it’s a nice

thing to say, but to be able to say “I want to drink from your

rivers,” is much more sensual To be able to talk about her butt

and her breasts as soft rolling hills, to talk about her hair as

wheat is more classic and romantic for her.”

“Attach your woman to natural forms and to the beauty of

nature, because women are the most beautiful thing in nature

to men and to plenty of women as well Again, it takes her out of

the smallness of her anxieties, and the worry about her body To

be able to connect a woman to natural forms releases her from

her individuality and sort of pours her back into the giant ocean

of the divine feminine.”

“

HOW TO GET THE MOST FROM THIS GUIDE

This eBook has more page after page of pre-written, classically romantic

and very sexy texts that you can copy or customize and send to your lady

Moreover, it gives you texts to send to a woman you just met as well as your wife

of sixty years

TEXT HER PICTURES

I highly encourage you to text pictures if you have a smart phone Adding visual

imagery will make each interaction more delectable for her

Women love symbols of your adoration, including pictures

of special moments These bring her closer to you

APPS, EMOTICONS AND TEXT PICS

There are abundant iPhone apps about texting in iTunes as of this writing

If you have a Smartphone, you can add apps that give you more fun objects

to text such as emoticons and keystroke pictures like these

For example, these two bunnies on the left

[TextPics] and the emoticons on the below

[Emoji] are both created with simple iPhone

apps

There are plenty of free

emoticons and images

online that will make your

lady very happy

Remember, we are girls at

heart and the more you

stoke our adolescent

femininity (make us feel

like a lovesick girl for you)

the more we fall in love

with you

Search “Emoticons for Love”

You can use a search engine to find pictures and images to use Simply right

click and save images to the folder that syncs with your smartphone to have a

collection of pictures ready to delight your lady

COPY AND PASTE TEXTS

Once you read through the pre-written texts in this ebook, you’ll find some favorites

you can use immediately and others you might want to save until you get her steamy

Edit them to your heart’s desire And if you come up with some particularly delightful

ones you’re willing to share, send me an email

We are in a new era of romance

Will you join in?

Take advantage of this boon in technology to increase your connection and

intimacy with your love

Texting throughout the day will keep her feeling close to you, in body and

in mind It will turned her on all day, charged with your cyber-sexuality

The texts below go from flirty to naughty with the last few being

very explicit Modify to your tastes and personality

In some examples, the texts are interactions with the indented

sentences the female reply

MAN I’ve been thinking about holding you all day

WOMAN I love to be held by you

WOMAN Warm Snuggly Secure Sensual Loved

MAN I want to give you as much pleasure as your

body will endure In every possible way

Ready to get started?

Have fun!

Bring pleasure into your lady’s

life every day

Become the most romantic

text-God she can imagine and she

will open for you like a blossom

Let me know how these work

for you I love your stories!

Sloane Fox

Sensual Ambassador

sloane@personallifemedia.net

FLIRTY TEXTS

Baby, I am going to hold and kiss you like you have never been kissed before

I can’t get enough of you At least we are never satiated by each other

Our separations make me desire you all the time

Good morning my hot tender little love bird

Thanks for a wonderful night You feelin’ good? You are an amazing woman

I love to make you laugh because you have such a sweet smile, baby

Here’s a funny pic to brighten your day [add pic]

Darling, we are perfect puzzle pieces for each other You complete me

Hi Sweetie You are on my mind today Sending loving thoughts and wondering

what you are thinking right this minute

How are you feeling today, baby?

I’m feeling great! Especially when I think of you

Lao Tzu said, “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength,

while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” I get strength and

courage from loving you, darling

Damn, baby! You are so HOT/adorable/clever/sweet n’ sexy

How does it make you feel to know you are the first thing I

think of when I wake up and the last thing I think of when

I fall asleep, my darling?

You are a very unique kisser A LOT of turn on runs through

the tip of your tongue

Makes everything else happening more intimate

I love the slippery sensation of your tongue on mine

One of the things I love most about our relationship is that

you and I finish each other’s sentences I love you, darling

I want to take you out on a date - just us - like the old days What

would you like to do with me if you had four hours of my complete

affection, attention and adoration? What would YOU love to do?

There are 3 steps to happiness, 1 you, 2 me, 3 our hearts, 4 eternity!

Intimacy is a trance

I want to get closer to you, shiver

Are you afraid?

I’m vulnerable

Vulnerable about losing yourself?

Good morning my sweet azure-eyed angel

Hello my steadfast bicep-blessed treat

I wish you were here in bed snuggling and kissing me

What do I love about you most? Honestly your intelligence and personality I

have never met a woman as full of life as you

I orbit around your sun

I love compliments! Giving and receiving

I want your words your thoughts They are exquisite gems

and I am a collector of jewels A patron of poetic pearls

I want to see you naked, in the firelight Starring in my

romantic fantasy

If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred

minus one day so I never have to live without you

I dreamt I caught a blue-eyed Valkyrie by the braided pigtails and rode

her doggy style through the stars to the inner circles of Valhalla

Yes I give my heart easily to YOU Am I a fool? I am afraid you are going to spoil

me for other women Post-orgasmic Sweetie Syndrome

What a sexy voice you have

The better to whisper sweet nothings into your ear, says the wolf Ha ha

Your body is the most beautiful body I have ever had You should have no doubts

about what I think about any part of your body I want to do everything to it

I could spend the whole day in bed with you Kissing you, loving you, licking you

caressing you, smelling you, running my hands through you hair, talking laughing

Spanking you, sucking you, tasting all your nectars

Can we make it TWO days? Laugh!

U r a doll and I’m going to shower your body with love, affection and

appreciation

Do you trust me enough yet to tell me your secret desires?

I can’t wait to see you hold you touch you kiss you

hear you smell you love you

You have been nothing but a blessing to my life as I hope

to be to yours

What is it going to be like when you make love to me? I enjoy

pondering this question

Our nervous systems will be fused into a primordial unity of fulfilled desire

Limbic lusciousness

Parasympathetic paroxysms packed with peak pleasure

To me you are the Einstein of Sensuality my love

What is it going to be like when you make love to me?

Meteors flaming, exploding suns, blossoming flowers, run away trains

Spontaneous combustions, Apocalypse, Tectonic shifts

New life teaming,

Rainbows swerving,

Children laughing,

Time stopping

Rivers reversing, the blind seeing, the ignorant learning

The sun rising to a new beautiful world

Not to get your expectations up too much Hahaa

Good morning sweetheart You exceeded my expectations once

again I love your sensitivity and slow sensual pace I can’t

wait to send you to places you have never been

Or to places you would like to return

Your bliss is my bliss

Lost in the expansive ocean of your blue eyes

Perfume of your breath

Take care of my beautiful woman today

Would crawl thru fire for you

Over coals Broken glass

My god you are so beautiful.

Your breasts are two of the seven wonders of the world

Your face is the third

You deserve a queen’s palace in our bedroom tonight

I will fill up every sense

Soft sheets and towels Soft lighting Nice music

I want to pleasure you

You are a ripe fruit to savor

I am looking forward, with relish, to the moment when we are connected, locked in,

a single circuit of passionate energy

And for that moment when I shower you in love, soak you in my sweet release

I love it when you talk like that you gorgeous flower

When your text alerts vibrate in my pocket I get hard Like Pavlov’s dog

l love your sense of humor and your juicy humours

Fantasy Hmmm Covering your naked body in sashimi and soy

sauce and devouring you

Sitting in a quiet dark place eating, kissing, touching

Slowly caressing your nipples with chop sticks

I know you like the warm thread of my affection to weave

around you morning and night Envelope me in your moist

warm life-giving cocoon of affection

Oh baby you are driving me crazy I am desperate for you

I awoke to memories of you on top of me, me screaming in

pleasure

I’m enjoying the mind replays of so many moments together.

Your body is my Stradivarius and on it I shall learn to play the music of the

heavens

Of Valhalla

And the orbiting spheres

Good morning my sweet darling

My sweet vanilla honey dripping buttercup

You were created to love and be loved and to spread love all around

These are once in a lifetime romantic moments we are sharing

You are an angel My beautiful angel of mercy

I don’t know what I want to explore more

Your erogenous zones or the city Hmmm

We can walk hand in hand thru the city kissing

and you can explore every inch of me in our room

You know I have quite an active imagination

Hope the reality lives up to your imagination

In my experience, reality eclipses my fantasies

Why? Because I bring a powerful combination of love,

joy and honesty to whatever I do

Can I take you out shopping for a new outfit that makes

you feel sexy? And can we get some shoes that are so

ridiculously high and provocative that you will only wear

them lying down? <wink>

Let’s find eternity in our ecstasy

My horoscope today: A new romance is definitely in the air This could

be a renewal of the romance within a current relationship or, if you’re single,

someone new and exciting might cross your path This person could be from

a distant place or in a profession such as law or education Whatever your

situation, the feeling is going to persist at least through next month

You are the hottest most exciting woman I have ever been with You have seen

nothing of my passion yet

I want not only to see all of your passion, I want to hold you as we explore uncharted

sensual territory together

I will be the Columbus and Magellan of your beautiful, wild, unexplored hemispheres

Longitudes and latitudes

Mountains, valleys and tropic zones

I am savoring your words

Your teaming erogenous Galapagos

Your storming capes and quiet deltas

Yes All of that

Ran out of geography metaphors:-)

Your soulfully satisfying kissing has turned me on to a whole new level

It has grounded me even more deeply to my animal It is dogging

my thoughts

All of that goodness is culminating in me wanting more kissing

and it is bringing us closer

Just forming these texts to you, thinking about kissing, has

made wanting

Glad I helped inspire your animal Save some of that animal

for me

I have never kissed another woman like I kiss you My love

and lust for you has no bounds

I wish my tongue were 3 feet long I would probe every inch

of your hollow flute

Get turned on by you.

All the things we pine for and desire

I always think about you

You are creating those feelings in me beautifully

You are sexy and romantic

Hope it lasts a long time

Beautiful man

Me too

I will be tending my loving, burning hot fires for you

I am not afraid of roaring fires

I will enjoy the exquisite pleasure/pain of missing, aching, longing for you, darling

I love us together right now

You are very poetic and loving today

Will you whet my appetite with a little idea of what you have planned,

baby? I love looking forward to things with anticipation

I see you blossoming

Yes

I’m in love

I believe lovers should bring others to completion

Aww Baby

Thank you for giving me your heart

Tends to make people blossom

You are so welcome

This rose [pic] is my heart open to you