Different friends or similar friends?I have always believed that choice of friends depends mainly on people`s hearts, not on their minds.. That is why some people become friends without
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I have always believed that choice of friends depends mainly on people`s hearts, not on their minds That is why some people become friends without having anything in common In other cases we
choose friends so similar to ourselves that we can understand each other much more easier than we do with our closest relatives, such as our brothers or sisters
First of all, I like to emphasize on the fact that it does not matter what kind of man my friend is I really do not care if he or she
possesses a similar temperament to mine or my friend is totally
different from me The only thing, I truly care about, is my friends
to be real ones, they should be reliable and I want to be able to
count on them as they can always count on me
In addition to above mentioned, I would like to say that having real friends, who are similar to me, has, of course, a lot of advantages
An example for that is my long lasted friendship with a schoolmate
of mine who was born thirteen day after me; we are the same zodiac sing; we have the same believes and thoughts It is very easy to have
a friend like this We understand each other with one word; only a look is enough for me to know what she wants and only a gesture is sufficient for her to `see` what I think Our friendship does not need
to be proven because it exists regardless of time and distance
However, to have a friend who is similar to me is as wonderful as to have one who is absolutely different from me In this case I can
discuss and argue with someone who has diverse opinion from
mine What is more, a person with different ideas and believes may help me to work things out in a different way which I consider
really valuable I think that if friends are not alike they can learn a lot from each other Another advantage of communicating with
friends who are different from me is that will increase my
experience in dealing with people on the whole
Comparing the advantages of having friends who are different from
me with the advantages of having friends with similar temper my efforts, to determine which kind of friend I prefer, have failed As I
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honesty and reliability This kind of friend I prefer for myself and I wish this kind of friend to all of you