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About the Author xi

Foreword Alan S Gurman xiii

Preface xv

Acknowledgements xxi

Endorsements of the fi rst edition xxiii

PART I CENTRAL CONCEPTS IN FAMILY THERAPY Chapter 1 Goals of Family Therapy Across the Lifecycle 3

The family lifecycle 5

Lifecycle stages associated with separation and divorce 29

The individual lifecycle 35

Sex-role development 41

Gay and lesbian lifecycles 43

Class, creed and colour 45

Summary 45

Further reading 536

Chapter 19 Professional Resources 537

Family therapy associations 537

Training and supervision 538

Ethics 538

Assessment instruments 539

Training videotapes 543

Web resources 544

Journals 545

Institutes, associations and websites for specifi c types of family therapy and systemic interventions 546

Written communication in therapy 549

Training exercises 555

Conclusion 580

References 581

Index 617

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Professor Alan Carr is the director of the Doctoral training programme in clinical psychology at University College Dublin and Consultant Martial and Family Therapist at the Clanwilliam Institute for Marital and Family Therapy in Dublin He has published over a dozen books and 200 aca-demic papers and conference presentations in the fi elds of family therapy and clinical psychology His work has been translated into a number of languages including Korean, Polish and Chinese He has extensive experi-ence in family therapy and clinical psychology, having worked in the fi eld

in the UK, Ireland and Canada

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I have never met Alan Carr, and really know nothing about him (except that his parents showed eminently good taste in choosing his forename) But I have been familiar with his writings for a long time, and for several years, in fact, have required the psychiatric residents I teach to read his earliest work on the Formulation Model The reason for this is clear and simple In the Psychiatry Department in which I teach, residents have such demanding clinical responsibilities that they can allot only minimal time

to their reading So, seminar readings must be concise, relevant and able For my values, they must also be conceptually well grounded On all these criteria, Alan Carr’s writings have easily passed the test So, when

use-he invited me to write this Foreword, I thought, ‘What a remarkably good clinician he must be to know intuitively how highly I regard his work!’Now that he has fully elaborated the Formulation Model in this book, I regard his contribution even more, and so should the reader, who really

is getting ‘two for the price of one’ in this volume The ‘fi rst book’ in this book is a highly readable and accessible introductory account of the major approaches to family therapy, one which will be very well received by teachers of family therapy and their students This new edition has been well updated with important new material on cutting-edge attachment-based therapies and integrative approaches, and a concise presentation of recent clinically relevant research on couple and family therapy Moreover,

it seems to me that Carr has actually revised more of the original text than second edition authors usually do, and, of course, the reader is the benefi -ciary of the work of such a responsible author! As in the fi rst edition, the numerous comparative tables Carr includes are pedagogical gold mines for instructors The second ‘book-within-a-book’ is Alan Carr’s singular contribution, The Formulation Model of family therapy treatment plan-ning and intervention This is how Carr’s book sets itself apart from other introductory texts, which usually explicate all the extant clinical theories, but leave (especially) the novice reader hanging as to what to do with them Carr never leaves such matters unattended to, and consistently suc-ceeds at showing the reader how to make theory practical I like to think of Carr’s book as news you can use, rather than views that confuse

Carr’s central contribution is his Formulation Model As an cally oriented clinical theoretician, Carr is appropriately respectful of

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empiri-purportedly disparate points of view He demonstrates his integrativeconceptual open-mindedness through his ‘three-column’ method of for-mulating clinical problems and exceptions to problems These levels or domains of behaviour appear at fi rst blush roughly to parallel the time-honoured tripartite division of human experience into ‘behaviour’, ‘cog-nition’ and ‘affect’, but, in fact, they are far more inclusive of practical pos-sibilities than such traditional categories would statically suggest Carr’s model politely but powerfully reminds us that intrapersonal factors, whether biochemical or intrapsychic, belong just as much in the domain of the real-life practice of couple and family therapy as the interpersonal fac-tors with which the fi eld of family therapy seemed to have been obsessed until just a few years ago This is the power of his model, that change can potentially be initiated within any functionally relevant domain of experi-ence, and still be systemically meaningful Carr’s Formulation Model is family therapy, but more important, it is wise therapy.

Alan Carr’s writing is consistently crisp, clear and cogent I am very pleased with the very positive reception with which the fi rst edition of this book has been met, and I truly hope this new edition’s exposure will not

be limited to students, colleagues and practitioners in Great Britain and Europe It certainly has much to commend it as an introductory textbook for students of couple and family therapy everywhere As noted, it is an introduction-with-a-twist, and that ‘twist’ is that it presents an eminently teachable and learnable clinical model that leads to effective action I hope Alan Carr’s important contribution to the family therapy fi eld will soon

be more visible on this side of the Atlantic

Alan S Gurman PhD Professor of Psychiatry, University of Wisconsin Medical School, Madison,

Wisconsin, USA October 2005

xiv FOREWORD

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One beginning and one ending for a book was a thing I did not agree with.

A good book may have three openings entirely dissimilar and inter-related only in the prescience of the author, or for that matter one hundred times as many endings… One book, one opening, was a principle with which I did not

fi nd it possible to concur.

Flann O’Brien (1939, At Swim-two-birds, pp 9, 13.)

The end lies concealed in the beginning All bodies grow around a skeleton Life is a petticoat about death I will not go to bed.

James Stephens (1912, The Crock of Gold, p 16)

(Reproduced by permission of the Society of Authors as the Literary Representative of the Estate of James Stephens.) New worlds for old.

James Joyce (1922, Ulysses, p 462)

It is not easy to learn either the graceful skills required for practicing ily therapy or the complex theoretical heritage on which this practice rests Some of the central challenges of teaching, learning and practicing family therapy are well expressed in the words of O’Brien, Stephens and Joyce that open this Preface Certainly it is not possible to encapsulate the story

fam-of family therapy in a book with one beginning and one ending So you may fi nd that this book reads like a number of volumes condensed into one A central idea of family therapy is that many important human pro-cesses involve cycles where the end lies concealed in the beginning You will fi nd that this book opens with a discussion of the lifecycle and that the concept of circularity is a core feature of the formulation model presented

in the heart of the book Family therapy is built on a bedrock of hope Family therapy is not just about problems It is also about exceptions to problems It does not focus exclusively on defi cits and disability, but also

is concerned with resilience and resourcefulness Family therapy is a cess through which we exchange new and better worlds for old

pro-This second edition of Family Therapy: Concepts, Process and Practice retains

the same overall structure, style and content of the fi rst edition but cludes a number of important revisions that make it more useful for post-graduates, trainers and experienced therapists

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in-xvi PREFACE

• The content and references in each chapter have been updated to take account of signifi cant developments that have occurred during the past six years

• An additional chapter on integrative models of practice has been added to Part I

• Attachment theory and therapy have been addressed more fully in Part I

• Developments in the formulation model have been added to Part II

• Parts III and IV have been revised in light of relevant new theoretical and empirical material on each of the child- and adult-focused prob-lems addressed in these sections

• The research review in Chapter 18 has been brought up to date and panded to include a section on common factors in effective therapy

ex-• The fi nal chapter on resources has been expanded to include lists of relevant websites; a section on ethics; and a series of practical exercises for developing family therapy skills

The book retains all of the features of the fi rst edition that have made it popular among postgraduates and experienced clinicians alike

Family Therapy: Concepts, Process and Practice was written both as a textbook

for use in marital and family therapy professional postgraduate training programmes and as a sourcebook for experienced clinicians The book of-fers a critical evaluation of the major schools of family therapy, an integra-tive model for the practice of marital and family therapy, and examples of how this model may be used with a range of common child-focused and adult-focused problems Findings from research on the effectiveness of family therapy are reviewed and the implications of these for evidence-based practice outlined

The fi rst part of this volume contains a critical evaluation of the major schools of family therapy The major traditions are grouped together in terms of their central focus of therapeutic concern, and in particular with respect to their emphasis on (1) problem-maintaining behaviour patterns; (2) problem-related belief systems and narratives; and (3) historical, con-textual and constitutional predisposing factors

Family therapy schools that highlight the role of repetitive patterns of family interaction in the maintenance of problem behaviour and advocate practices that aim to disrupt these patterns of interaction include: the MRI brief therapy approach; strategic therapy; structural therapy; cognitive-behavioural approaches; and functional family therapy

Traditions that point to the centrality of belief systems and narratives that subserve repetitive interaction patterns include: constructivism; Milan systemic family therapy; social-constructionist family therapy approaches;solution-focused therapy; and narrative therapy

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PREFACE xvii

Traditions that highlight the role of historical, contextual and tional factors in predisposing family members to adopt particular beliefsystems and engage in particular problematic interaction patterns include: transgenerational family therapy; psychoanalytic family therapy tradi-tions; attachment theory-based approaches; experiential family therapy; multisystemic therapy; and psychoeducational approaches

constitu-This organisation of schools of therapy in terms of their emphases on three particular themes is a useful learning device, but is an oversimpli-

fi cation Most schools of family therapy address problem-maintaining behaviour patterns, constraining beliefs and broader historical, contex-tual and constitutional factors However, the classifi cation of schools according to the degree to which they emphasize these three themes, offers a backdrop against which a number of integrative models are pre-sented, including the integrative approach to family therapy advocated

in this volume

A three-column model for formulating both problems and exceptions to these is presented in the second part of this book The formulation model uses the three themes by which the schools of family therapy were clas-sifi ed to organise information about a particular problem That is, it is ar-gued that for any problem, a formulation may be constructed using ideas from many schools of family therapy in which the pattern of family in-teraction that maintains the problem is specifi ed; the constraining beliefs and narratives that underpin each family member’s role in this pattern are outlined; and the historical, contextual and constitutional factors that underpin these belief systems and narratives are specifi ed In parallel with this, a similar formulation may be constructed to explain why the problem does not occur in exceptional circumstances, which, while similar to prob-lematic situations, differs in important key respects

In light of these formulations, a range of interventions that address factors within each column of these three-column formulations may be consid-ered Some interventions aim primarily to disrupt problem-maintaining behaviour patterns or amplify exceptional non-problematic patterns Oth-ers aim to help family members re-author their constraining narratives and develop more liberating and fl exible belief systems that underpin ex-ceptions to the problem Still others aim to modify the negative impact

of historical, contextual and constitutional factors or to draw on family strengths in these domains Thus, while it is accepted that the classifi ca-tion of schools of family therapy according to three themes is an oversim-plifi cation, it is a particularly useful oversimplifi cation insofar as it may facilitate a coherent, integrative and fl exible approach to the practice of family therapy

In the third part of this book, the way in which the integrative model may

be used in the treatment of common child-focused problems, including

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xviii PREFACE

child abuse, conduct problems and drug abuse, is outlined The tion of the model with common adult-focused problems is considered in the fourth part The focus here is on marital distress, depression and anxi-ety, alcohol problems and schizophrenia

applica-In the fi nal part, evidence for the effectiveness of family therapy and ily-based interventions with a range of child and adult-focused problems

fam-is addressed and the implications of thfam-is research for evidence-based tice is set out Also, useful resources for the training, practice and research are presented

prac-While this volume is intended as a sourcebook for experienced clinicians,

it has also been written as a textbook for newcomers to the fi eld of family therapy and systemic consultation I have probably erred on the side of oversimplifying many complex ideas in an attempt to make the family therapy literature accessible to the newcomer I hope that experienced cli-nicians can bear with this shortcoming A glossary of new terms is provid-

ed at the end of theoretical chapters In addition, reading lists that include references to original sources, overview chapters from major handbooks and important journal articles are given

The integrative model and approach to practice described here evolved in two particular contexts The ground work for the model was laid over a seven-year period during the 1980s and early 1990s while I was working in

a UK National Health Service Child and Family Clinic (Carr, 1995, 1997) During this period there was a national emphasis on cooperation between health service professionals and their colleagues in social services and education There was also an emphasis on liaison between district hos-pital departments offering services to children such as child psychology, child psychiatry and paediatrics In addition, many hospitals within the NHS became privately run trusts These factors created a climate which favoured the development of models of assessment and intervention that were time-limited, that took account of the wider professional network of which the child and therapist were part, that clearly addressed the over-lap between the roles of therapist and agent of social control, and that could be evaluated or audited in a relatively objective way The model was extended for use with adult-focused problems, as well as child-focused problems from 1992 to the present at the Clanwilliam Institute in Dublin.Many of us who work in the fi eld of systemic consultation and family therapy at some time during our professional development held the view

that there is a true formulation of the client’s problems and exceptions to

these and a related correct set of solutions In the approach described in the heart of this book, it is assumed that the formulations that emerge from talking with families about the presenting problem and exceptions to these are no more than social constructions Since it is possible to construct multiple formulations to explain any problem or exception, it is important

to have a criterion by which to judge the merit of any particular one

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PREFACE xix

In the approach to practice presented in the heart of this volume, it is the

usefulness of formulations in suggesting a variety of feasible solutions that

are acceptable to the family which is the sole criterion for judging the

mer-it of one formulation over another Because of mer-its emphasis on the socially constructed nature of problem and exception formulations and the choice

of usefulness as a criterion for selecting between different formulations, the approach described in this volume may be viewed as falling within the tradition of social-constructionism

In deciding about the usefulness of formulations and interventions, cians using the approach to practice set out in this volume are invited to take account of the results of empirical research on the effectiveness of family therapy Indeed, a thorough review of the more rigorous family therapy outcome research is given in Chapter 18 Due to the social-con-structionist positioning that is taken in this book, and because treatment outcome research results are used to inform clinical practice, this text will

clini-be of interest to both postmodern practitioners and empirically oriented clinicians

A distinction has been made within the fi eld between fi rst- and order approaches to practice, with fi rst-order approaches using observed systems as a central explanatory concept and second-order approaches us-ing the metaphor of observing systems as the principal theoretical frame The integrative approach set out in this volume attempts to reap a harvest from both of these fi elds and – for want of a better metaphor – may be called an ‘integrative third-order approach to family therapy’ although I have reservations about the usefulness of such labels

second-Alan Carr University College Dublin & Clanwilliam Institute Dublin, Ireland

October 2005

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I am grateful to the many colleagues, friends and relatives who have helped me develop the ideas presented in this book In particular I would like to thank the group who introduced me to family therapy at the Mater Hospital in Dublin in the late 1970s: Dr Imelda McCarthy, Dr Jim Sheehan,

Dr Nollaig Byrne, Koos Mandos and Dr Paul McQuaid

I am also grateful to Dr Chris Cooper, Peter Simms and Carol Elisabeth Burra in Kingston, Ontario, with whom I worked while living in Canada

In the UK, my gratitude goes to the group with whom I practiced at Thurlow house and the Queen Elisabeth Hospital in King’s Lynn during the 1980s and early 1990s: Dr Dermot McDonnell, Dr Chris Wood, George Gawlinski, Sheila Docking, Sue Grant, Nick Irving, Shahin Afnan, Dr Jonathan Dossetor, Dr Dennis Barter, Denise Sherwood and Mike Cliffe

Thanks are due to Dr Ivan Eisler, Dr Eddy Street, Professor John Carpenter,

Bebe Speed and Professor Bryan Lask at the editorial offi ce of the Journal

of Family Therapy; to Professor Terry Trepper, Editor of Journal of Family Psychotherapy; to Professor Peter Stratton, Editor of Human Systems: The Journal of Systemic Consultation and Management; to Max Cornwall, Editor

of The Australian Journal of Family Therapy; to Professor Doug Sprenkle, past Editor of the Journal of Marital and Family Therapy; and to Professor Michael Nichols, Editor of Contemporary Family Therapy for challenging

me to articulate my ideas more clearly I am grateful to Professor Martin Herbert at Exeter University and Dr Arlene Vetere at the University of Surrey for their collegial support

Thanks to Mike Coombs, Senior Publishing Editor with John Wiley & Sons, Ltd, for guidance throughout the production of the fi rst edition of this book and to Deborah Egleton for her support with the production of the second edition

The second edition of this book was completed at the Psychology Institute, Aarhus University in Denmark, where I was a visiting professor in the autumn of 2005 I am especially grateful to Professors Aegen Trillingsgaard and Ask Elklit, who arranged funding and support for this sabbatical leave and for their generosity and hospitality during my time in Denmark

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Past and present colleagues at UCD, especially Professor Ciarán Benson, Dr Gary O’Reilly, Dr Muireann McNulty, Dr Barbara Dooley,Muriel Keegan, Dr Suzanne Guerin, Dr Jennifer Edgeworth, Dr Patricia Noonan Walsh, Fíona Kelly Meldon and Frances Osborne, have been very supportive of my efforts to write the two editions of this book and I am grateful to them for their patience and encouragement.

A special word of thanks is due to past and present colleagues at the Clanwilliam Institute in Dublin, particularly Dr Ed McHale, Phil Kearney, Aileen Tiernery, Dr Bernadette O’Sullivan, Declan Roche, Clive Garland, Cory deJong, Innes Collins, Noreen Dennehy, Breda McGee, Linda Finnegan, Dr Gregor Lange, Carl Murphy and Adele McGrath

Postgraduates at UCD and the Clanwilliam have offered useful feedback, which has been helpful in writing the second edition and I am grateful to them for this

Much of what I know about family life, I have learned from my own family and to them I owe a particular debt of gratitude

Go raibh míle maith agaibh go léir.

Alan Carr, University College Dublin & Clanwilliam Institute Dublin, Ireland

October 2005

xxii ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

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ENDORSEMENTS OF THE FIRST

EDITION

This is an excellent basic text in family therapy

Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry

The book is an encyclopaedic achievement and will be of use both to ees and more experienced practitioners

train-Clinical Psychology Forum

This volume’s scope and approach set it apart from other introductory texts in family therapy

Contemporary Family Therapy

As Alan Gurman writes in his foreword, the reader is getting ‘two for the price of one’ The fi rst book is a highly readable introductory account

of the major approaches to family therapy The second book details the author’s formulation model What impressed me was the comprehensive-ness of this volume

Journal of Family Therapy

The key to Carr’s book may well lie in his early quotations from James Joyce, James Stephens and Flann O’Brien, in that, like them, his project is

an attempt to tame the untameable, to marry the many differences It is a bold project

Clinical Child Psychology and Psychiatry

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Part I

CENTRAL CONCEPTS IN FAMILY THERAPY

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Chapter 1

GOALS OF FAMILY THERAPY

ACROSS THE LIFECYCLE

Family therapy is a broad term given to a range of methods for working with families with various biopsychosocial diffi culties Within the broad cathedral of family therapy there is a wide variety of views on what types

of problems are appropriately addressed by family therapy; who defi nes these problems; what constitutes family therapy practices; what type of theoretical rational undepins these practices; and what type of research supports the validity of these practices

Some family therapists argue that all human problems are essentially relational and so family therapy is appropriate in all instances Others ar-gue that marital and family therapy are appropriate for specifi c relation-ship problems or as an adjunct to pharmacological treatment of particular conditions, such as schizophrenia

Some family therapists argue that problems addressed in therapy are defi ned by clients, that is, parents, children or marital partners seeking help Others argue that problems are best defi ned by professionals in terms of psychiatric diagnoses or statutory status, such as being a family

in which child abuse has occurred and on an at-risk register, or being a person with an alcohol problem on probation

With respect to practices, some family therapists invite all family members to all therapy sessions Others conduct family therapy with individuals, by empowering them to manage their relationships with fam-ily members in more satisfactory ways Still others have broadened family therapy so that it includes members of the wider professional and social network around the family, and may refer to this approach as ‘systemic practice’

There are many theories of family therapy Some focus on the role of the family in predisposing people to developing problems or in precipi-tating their diffi culties Others focus on the role of the family in problem maintenance But all family therapists highlight the role of the family in problem resolution There is also considerable variability in the degree to which theories privilege the role of family patterns of interaction, family belief systems and narratives, and historical contextual and constitutional factors in the aetiology and maintenance of problems

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4 CENTRAL CONCEPTS IN FAMILY THERAPY

With respect to research, some family therapists argue that case studies

or descriptive qualitative research provides adequate support for the

ef-fi cacy of family therapy On the other hand, some family therapists light the importance of quantitative results from controlled research trials

high-in supporthigh-ing the degree to which family therapy is effective high-in treathigh-ing specifi c problems

Within this volume, an integrative and developmental approach will

be taken to family therapy, and where better to start than with a sideration of family problems across the lifecycle Family problems occur across all stages of the lifecycle Here are some examples:

con-• A six-year-old child whose parents cannot control him and who pushes his sister down the stairs

• A 13-year-old girl who worries her parents because she will not eat and has lost much weight

• A 19-year-old boy who believes he is being poisoned and refuses to take prescribed antipsychotic medication

• A couple in their mid-30s who consistently argue and fi ght with each other

• A blended family in which the parents have both previously been married and who have diffi culties managing their children’s unpre-dictable and confusing behaviour

• A family in which a parent has died prematurely and in which the13-year-old has run away from home

• A family in which a child is terminally ill and will not follow medical advice

• A family with traditional values in which a teenager ‘comes out’ and declares that he is gay

• A family in which both parents are unemployed and who have

dif-fi culty managing their children without getting into violent rows

• A black family living in a predominantly white community, where the 16-year-old boy is involved in drug abuse in a delinquent peer group.These are all complex cases that involve or affect all family members to

a greater or lesser degree A number of these cases also involve or fect members of the community in which the family lives In some of the cases listed, other agencies, including schools, hospitals, social services, law enforcement, juvenile justice or probation, may be involved Family therapy is a broad psychotherapeutic movement that offers conceptual frameworks for making sense of complex cases such as those listed here and entails approaches to clinical practice for helping families resolve complex problems

af-The lifecycle is a particularly useful framework within which to ceptualise problems that may be referred for family therapy In this chapter, normative models of the family and individual lifecycles will be

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con-GOALS OF FAMILY THERAPY ACROSS THE LIFECYCLE 5

described Gender development; lifecycle issues unique to lesbian and gay people; and issues of culture and class will also be discussed The aim of the chapter is to sketch out some of the problem areas that may be addressed by family therapy across the lifecycle

THE FAMILY LIFECYCLE

Families are unique social systems insofar as membership is based on combinations of biological, legal, affectional, geographic and histori-cal ties In contrast to other social systems, entry into family systems is through birth, adoption, fostering or marriage and members can leave only by death Severing all family connections is never possible Fur-thermore, while family members fulfi l certain roles, which entail specifi cdefi nable tasks such as the provision of food and shelter, it is the relation-ships within families which are primary and irreplaceable

With single-parenthood, divorce, separation and remarriage as common events, a narrow and traditional defi nition of the family is no longer useful(Parke, 2004; Walsh, 2003a) It is more expedient to think of a person’s family as a network of people in the individual’s immediate psychosocial

fi eld This may include household members and others who, while not members of the household, play a signifi cant role in the individual’s life For example, a separated parent and spouse living elsewhere with whom

a child has regular contact; foster parents who provide relief care odically; a grandmother who provides informal day-care, and so forth In clinical practice the primary concern is the extent to which this network meets the individual’s needs

peri-Leaving Home

Having noted the limitations of a traditional model of family structure, paradoxically, the most useful available models of the family lifecycle are based on the norm of the traditional nuclear family with other fam-ily forms being conceptualised as deviations from this norm (Carter & McGoldrick, 1999) One such model is presented in Table 1.1 This model delineates the main developmental tasks to be completed by the family at each stage of development In the fi rst two stages, the principal concerns are with differentiating from the family of origin by completing school, developing relationships outside the family, completing one’s education and beginning a career Problems in developing emotional autonomy from the family of origin may occur at this stage and may fi nd expression in many ways, including depression, drug abuse and eating disorders such

as anorexia and bulimia Problems in developing economic independence may also occur where young adults have not completed their education or

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Adjusting to including in-laws and grandchildren within the family circle

Dealing with disabilities and death in the family of origin

Adjusting to the children taking a more central role in family maintenance

Making room for the wisdom and experience of the elderly Dealing with loss of spouse and peers

Preparation for death, life review and integration

Source: Adapted from Carter and McGoldrick (1999) The Expanded Family Lifecycle Individual, Family and Social Perspectives, 3rd edn Boston: Allyn & Bacon.

Table 1.1 Stages of the family lifecycle

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GOALS OF FAMILY THERAPY ACROSS THE LIFECYCLE 7

where limited career options are available In these circumstances some young adults become involved in crime

Forming a Couple

In the third stage of the family lifecycle model, the principal tasks are those associated with selecting a partner and deciding to marry or co-habit In the following discussion, the term marriage is used to cover both traditional marriage or the more modern arrangement of long-term co-habitation Adams (1995) views mate selection as a complex process that involves four stages In the fi rst phase, partners are selected from among those available for interaction At this stage, people select mates who are physically attractive and similar to themselves in interests, intelligence, personality and other valued behaviours and attributes In the second phase, there is a comparison of values following revelation of identities through self-disclosing conversations If this leads to a deepening of the original attraction then the relationship will persist In the third phase, there is an exploration of role compatibility and the degree to which mu-tual empathy is possible Once interlocking roles and mutual empathy have developed the costs of separation begin to outweigh the diffi culties and tensions associated with staying together If the attraction has deep-ened suffi ciently and the barriers to separation are strong enough, con-solidation of the relationship occurs In the fourth and fi nal phase, a deci-sion is made about long-term compatibility and commitment If a positive decision is reached about both of these issues, then marriage or long-term cohabitation may occur When partners come together they are effectively bringing two family traditions together, and setting the stage for the inte-gration of these traditions, with their norms and values, rules, roles and routines into a new tradition Decision making about this process is not always easy, and couples may come to a marital and family therapist to address this complex issue

Tiêu đề	Family therapy: Concepts, process and practice
Tác giả	Alan Carr
Trường học	University College Dublin
Chuyên ngành	Psychology
Thể loại	Sách
Năm xuất bản	2006
Thành phố	Dublin

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