4 Simple phobias 5 Complex phobias 7 Purposeless phobias 9 Purposeful phobias 12 “Just having a panic attack” 17 Role of Anxiety 20 Symptom Relief 22 Some common phobias 24 Five Solution
Trang 3How To End Phobias,
Anxiety & Panic
by
Bryan M Knight, MSW, PhD
Copyright©2004 Bryan M Knight
3rd edition
All rights reserved
published by The Chessnut Press
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Trang 4Contents
What is a phobia? 4
Simple phobias 5
Complex phobias 7
Purposeless phobias 9
Purposeful phobias 12
“Just having a panic attack” 17
Role of Anxiety 20
Symptom Relief 22
Some common phobias 24
Five Solutions 29
Self-Help Cure 33
About Dr Bryan Knight 37
Resources 40
Trang 5What is a phobia?
A phobia is an irrational anxiety about a person, place or thing, which:
is out of proportion to any actual danger,
cannot be reasoned or explained away,
appears silly to the sufferer,
but cannot be voluntarily controlled, and
leads to avoidance of what is feared
There are simple phobias and complex phobias
Simple phobias are those that focus on a single person, place or thing Often the sufferer simply avoids the feared object, (e.g.,
an elevator) Simple phobias usually start with a traumatic
incident, such as being stuck in an elevator
They are the easiest type of phobia to overcome
Complex phobias are those that focus on several objects And interfere with the life of the sufferer
A complex phobia might, for instance, include fear of heights, fear of flying, fear of escalators, fear of museums containing aeroplanes, even fear of magazines containing photographs of planes
To overcome a complex phobia with traditional therapeutic methods – including hypnotherapy usually requires
uncovering its root cause(s)
However, you may find relief (permanently) by using
Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) about which more
later
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Trang 6Simple Phobias
A simple phobia, i.e., one which is focused on a single feared
object such as spiders or computers, often has little impact on your life and thus rarely calls for treatment
If you are terrified of the ocean but live in the mid-West, you may never have to face your fear; should you see an ocean on television you can swiftly change the channel
Dr S is a surgeon who had a life-long phobia of cats He was generally able to avoid contact with cats He would cross the street if he saw one of the dreaded creatures coming his way
He would steer away from stores, restaurants, any places where
he knew there would be a cat In all other ways life was fruitful for Dr S
Until the day his best friend excitedly reported over the phone that he’d brought home a pair of kittens for his daughter
The surgeon began to make excuses not to visit the friend This was very tricky, especially since their respective wives and children were also friends
Finally, Dr S had to confess his fear of cats The friends could not understand but they valued the friendship enough to do as
Dr S requested: before he came for a visit, they locked up the kittens, now grown to full-sized cats, in their spare room
After a while Dr S became more and more embarrassed about his phobia His nine-year-old daughter Sofia also developed a fear of cats This bothered her best friend (Dr S’s daughter) who wanted Sofia to enjoy the cats as much as she did
Eventually, Dr S decided to conquer his phobia Feeling silly, but determined, he made an appointment with a hypnotherapist
Trang 7The first session of hypnosis was used to uncover the cause of the doctor’s phobia (at four he had been badly mauled by a cat, something he had entirely forgotten); in the second session the hypnotherapist used behavioural techniques to enable the doctor
to approach cats (in his imagination); the third session was devoted to supportive therapy with positive imaging and post-hypnotic suggestions Dr S was encouraged to actually touch his friend’s cats in real life To his friend’s delight, that is
exactly what Dr S did
The doctor was ecstatic And the cats were free to roam the house normally
But little Sofia was still scared So her father brought her to the hypnotherapist She was so responsive (children are usually excellent at hypnosis because of their rich fantasy lives of
make-believe) that only one session was required to enable her
to be as comfortable playing with the cats as was her friend
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Trang 8Complex phobias
Very often an unchecked phobia spreads to more and more situations Thus the life of a phobic person becomes ever more
constricted
A germ phobia, for example, could ultimately lead to the
phobic person existing in one highly-scrubbed room with a very restricted intake of (supposedly germ-free) food and drink
Or a person might be phobic, for instance, of driving across a bridge Then he becomes phobic of even looking at a
photograph of a bridge, so then he avoids books with
photographs of bridges and movies because there might be a bridge image, so he begins to avoid bookstores and movie
houses
In addition the man begins to avoid streets near bridges Then highways because somewhere along their length they might include a bridge
And on and on
If your life, like that of an estimated 16 million Americans, is
restricted because you’re too anxious
to drive,
or to fly in a plane,
or to take an elevator,
or to lie on a beach,
or to wash your hair,
or to enter a restaurant,
or to use a public toilet,
or to undergo surgery,
or to pick up a telephone,
or to shake hands with a stranger,
Trang 9Drugs can certainly calm you down, perhaps sedate you enough
so you can drag yourself onto that plane, or across the bridge
But beneath the chemical calm, the fear lives on
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Trang 10Purposeless Phobias
There are two kinds of phobias: purposeless and purposeful
Purposeless phobias are learned They start with:
trauma, or
teaching
The case of Dr S is an example of a purposeless phobia which arose from a trauma (being attacked by a cat)
His daughter Sofia’s case is an example of a purposeless phobia that arose from teaching (her father’s example taught her to fear cats)
Purposeless phobias succumb quickly to hypnotherapy
When the cause is known (as with Dr S and his daughter) the client is taught to relax while imagining similar — but now positive and self-controlled — scenes to what really happened
If the cause is not known, hypnosis if first used to uncover the origin of the phobia
Behavioural techniques are employed to conquer a
purposeless phobia that has been learned by someone teaching the client, as in the case of Sofia (“modelling” is the term used
by therapists)
This means that while the client is in hypnosis she is gradually exposed to the feared object This is, of course, in the client’s imagination Then the client is encouraged to face the fear in real life
To cure any kind of phobia requires a change in the thinking
of the phobic