Parents' views and Young persons' thoughts about the world Parent: - I know what life is like.. Young person: - the world has changed since you were young.. This is true of the way of
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the world
Parent: - I know what life is like If you have any sense
take my advice
Young person: - the world has changed since you
were young You don’t understand our problem today
Besides we ought to be free to do what we like
What are your views on this argument?
As an old saying goes all that is old is not necessarily
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wise person weighs between these two maxims before he
arrives any conclusion This is true of the way of life led
from generation to generation Take for instance writing
materials From the days of pens dipped in ink, we have
traversed a long way and now living in a generation using
ball point pens An old man used to the olden pens need
not feel sorry that those days are gone; nor should the
young ones gloat over him What is written is more
important than the material used People who used old
style of pens and crude sheets like papyrus or the vellum
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What has been said of the pen is also true of many other
things in life, whether it be dress, food, housing, lighting
and entertainment In the matter of dress, the materials
have changed and the way of stitching it has changed But
the fact that clothes are used for covering the body
remains unchanged What is elegant and comely in one
generation need not be so in the next From mini to max:
and back, there is a swing Somebody sets the fashion
and the media makes it appear popular so the younger
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looks upon it with suspicion and disapproval This is so
with many things in life Even with behavior and morals
this is so
What is considered the norm these days is not approved
by the older generation Copy books maxims do not go
well with the younger generation Take for instance
smoking In some societies it is taken for granted trough a
wise parent may not like his son smoking
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has been superseded by the environment which plays a
crucial role today In fact, environment factors have always
influenced man’s life and it can be rightly said that the
environment has always been a factor in the march of
civilization; only the panorama changes very fast because
of swift communication and the induction of technology in
every aspect of life Whether many of these things are
necessary is a matter of opinion The spoken voice gave
birth to the recorded voice, so from the gramophone disc
we have now come to the cassettes The camera gave
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obsolete with the coming of the television One must look
at the use rather than the instrument Our forefathers were
using open fires for cooking but now it is the electric ovens
or gas A modern kitchen is a very nice place compared to
the one in the good old days
If it is a question of morality, then some serious thinking
must go into it Morality as conceived by man has been
built into the society concerned The diction “Thou shalt
not steal” is true and good today as it was in ancient days
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table manners, in good neighborliness and many other
things, the elder one must not only be a role model but
also initiator for practical reasons
Beliefs are easily shaken nowadays The society is not a
closed one as it was So youngsters come across different
faiths and beliefs and rightly or wrongly take to one of
them Take for instance, the hippie cult It has caught the
imagination of many youths to the rude shock of elderly
people It is very difficult to change the younger
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Boys and girls moving freely may be a shock to the older
generation A wise parent cannot put a brake suddenly but
can slowly bring into the mind of the young ones the
dangers of free love
Besides the parent, the society itself has a part to play in
this aspect The church, the newspaper and magazines,
the TV and other media can play a vital role in bringing
about a healthy society Bringing up the younger
generation is like walking a tight rope The parents’ role is
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completely insulated from outside influences This
generation gap will continue and will be brought into sharp
focus because of the fast moving world we live in
nowadays