Daytime Pick-Up Revealed docx

If you want to be successful with women, there’s one thing you need to do first.. FACTOR : COMFORT AND TRUST Most guys just don’t know how to build comfort and trust with the women they

Daytime Pick-Up Revealed

The Art of Meeting, Connecting and Seducing Women In Coffee Shops, Malls, College Campuses, and Anywhere Under

the Sun!

T able of C onTenTs

GettInG the Most FroM thIs MAnuAl 6

An eye opener on cold ApproAchInG 9

WelcoMe to WoMen’s everydAy reAlIty 10

4 steps to IncreAse the eFFectIveness oF GoAl settInG 13

IntroductIon to the 8 essentIAl dAyGAMe FActors 14

Section 2:

the 8 eSSentiAl dAY gAMe dAting FActorS 17

FActor 3: lonG terM And short terM vAlue 28

FActor 4: eFFectIve coMMunIcAtIon 34

FActor 5: eMotIonAl connectIon 41

FActor 6: coMFort & trust 47

Section 3:

putting it All together: StArting converSAtionS,

rAcking up dAteS, And getting phYSicAl 54

KIller MIndset For MeetInG WoMen 54

Be In tune WIth the enerGy level 56

crAsh course In stArtInG conversAtIon WIth WoMen 57

Go FIrst prIncIple 64

WhAt to do AFter InItIAtInG the conversAtIon 66

you Must creAte A connectIon 66

hoW to AnsWer lIGht rApport QuestIons 67

BuIldInG suBstAnce: ActIve lIstenInG, FIndInG her core vAlue,

And leAdInG WIth your pAssIons 71

leAdInG WIth your pAssIons 74

A couple oF eFFectIve conversAtIonAl tools 75

here’s A conversAtIon I hAd In the pAst 78

BuIldInG FAMIlIArIty & suBstAnce 80

the Art oF GettInG phone nuMBers & settInG up dAtes 82

8 tIps For An unForGettABle FIrst dAte 86

on creAtInG A sexuAl vIBe 87

FroM coFFee shop, MAll, superMArKet to the BedrooM:

First of all, I want to congratulate you.

You’ve taken the first step toward improving yourself I know there’s a lot of

information out there and, quite frankly, it can be overwhelming

Rest assured that your dating life will take on a positive spin after you’ve

absorbed and integrated the information in this e-book

What you’re about to read is a product of years of trial and error Anyone,

regardless of age and experience, can benefit from this manual

Over the years, I’ve piled up all the useful information that I’ve discovered in my

pursuit to perfecting daytime pick ups

In the process, I came up with over 2,000 pages filled with discoveries, theories,

and tactics on meeting women during the daytime

2,000 pages? Yes

I’ve compressed it all into this book I don’t want you to take a year to see

results I want you to succeed now

So I came up with a manual that anyone, even my 8-year-old cousin, would

understand

I learned the natural [**hard?**] way I learned from my past failures, hanging

out with guys that were good with women, and trial and error

It was a long and painful process but, at that time, I really had no other option

Worst of all, I had to learn how pick up women from scratch

Back then, there were no resources on meeting women outside of the “bars and

clubs” context There were no gurus, books, videos, or workshops that focused

on daytime pick-up

It didn’t stop me though I knew I had the passion and motivation to get this part

of my life handled I just needed to know how to operate in the field

After thousands of interactions and years of going out to the malls, streets,

beaches, coffee shops, and college campuses, I’ve developed a step by step

system that will allow anyone, with the right combination of passion, dedication,

and perseverance to become successful with women, by choice

I nTroduCTIon

There’s a catch though… You have to want it.

You have to desire success and do whatever it takes to become competent in this area of your life

So now, I want you to sit back, relax, and keep an open mind You’re about to begin your journey

I promise you won’t regret it

Do you want to know the secret to seeing results fast? One word: consistency You can have the best techniques, the best system, and the best coach out there, but without consistency, it’s all worthless

Over the past three years, I’ve talked to hundreds of people who have successfully transformed their dating lifestyle Eventhough they were from different walks of life and trained differently, there was always one common denominator Day in day out, they each followed their pre-determined plan, consistently, without fail, and without excuses

There are many ways to achieve your goal, but you will never reach it unless you consistently exert the effort to put one foot in front of the other You must find the determination, passion, and drive within yourself to see this through If you don’t get this part of your life handled right now, then when will you?

Treat this like going to college to get a degree You won’t be in college forever, and you will not be figuring out this part of your life forever - only a few months! This is a short-term challenge to you! Ask yourself, would you be willing to

experience a slight inconvenience and break through your comfort levels to achieve the lifestyle of your dreams - or will you continue to be an “average Joe” for 70 more years? Which path will you take?

It’s time to make a decision This manual is my helping hand to all those guys who want to learn how to successfully meet women during the day Now, make

a stand, and choose wisely

First of all, this book isn’t some magic pill that will solve all your problems overnight

It doesn’t work that way

You’ll need to take sometime to try out the tactics that you learn

a W ord on C onsIsTenCy

I want you to approach this as you, would when you’re trying to develop a skill

The more you practice, the better you become

It’s similar to learning a sport You need to practice several times a week, if you

want to become competent

There are two things that are directly correlated to your success You need the

right information and the ability to put that information into practice

I will spoon feed you with knowledge on daytime pick-up but that won’t be

enough You need to go out there and practice the things you learn

It’s a repetitive process that will propel you toward success

I’ll constantly be throwing new concepts at you, so be prepared Some of them

will be helpful to your current situation Most of them, you will need in the future

Treat this book as a reference or encyclopedia Read through it once or twice

and absorb whatever you can Come back and read the individual section

from time to time

Read, absorb, and integrate the information you learn

Don’t ever, ever be satisfied with just learning this stuff, practice it! Don’t go jump

right onto another book or program right away without practicing the things you

learn here

Keep practicing, reading, and using it until you have it all down!

Please feel free to e-mail me with your ideas, comments, complaints, or just a

simple “Hi” note if you will I want to know what you think You can drop me a

line at grungey10@captivatetoconnect.com

Let’s Rock n Roll!

G eTTInG T he M osT f roM T hIs M anual

This book is copyright 2007, with all rights reserved It is illegal to copy, distribute, or create derivative works from this book in whole or in part, or to contribute to the copying, distribution, or creating of derivative works of this book When you purchased this book, you agreed to the statement on the bottom of the homepage of my

website that stated:

“©2007, All Rights Reserved If you try to copy, steal, or distribute all or any part of my book or this web page without permission, I will have my attorney contact you and make you regret what you did Count on it By purchasing this book, you agree to the following: You understand that the information contained on this page and in this book is an opinion, and it should be used for personal entertainment purposes only You are responsible for your own behavior, and none of this book is to be considered legal or personal advice Neither www.daytimepickup.com, www.captivatetoconnect.

com, nor Captivate to Connect, LLC assume any liability for the information contained herein.”

I expect you to abide by these rules I regularly and actively have my team search the internet for people who violate my copyrights.

Now that we’re finished with the warning, let’s learn how to be successful with women during the daytime

WarnInG!

Section 1:

the FirSt Step to Meeting And dAting More WoMen

thAn You cAn hAndle

In this section, I’ll discuss some interesting things about the different steps before

the approach, and how I’ve used this information to solidify my game and make

myself more successful with women

Have you ever experienced seeing “your type” of girl walk down the street?

Most likely you have The question is, ”What Did You Do About It?

Did you start giving second glances? Scratch your head in awe? Smile at her as

she passed by? Or did you just look down as she walked by?

If you didn’t do anything, then that’s normal I have yet to meet someone

who knows exactly what to do and how to do it when he sees a woman that

catches his eye

I’ve met a couple of men that can pull it off, and believe me, they are rare

What exactly is your reason for buying this book? Tell me, I’m sure you wanted to

accomplish something Did you want a girlfriend? Did you want to expand your

social circle? Or did you just want to have new dates every single day?

If you answered yes to any one of those, then day game just might be the

answer

Why? Day Game is the ability to meet any woman, outside of bars and clubs,

build an emotional connection, get them on dates, and have the possibility of

starting a relationship with them

It’s not luck, as most may think, it’s a skill set

Have you ever stopped to wonder how many hot women you see everyday?

Women of all types of beauty are not hard to find, they roam around malls,

beaches, supermarkets, and coffee shops every single day

Thousands of women go out during the day to run errands, shop, relax, have fun

and a whole list of other reasons The best thing about it is that YOU could

potentially monopolize and have access to ALL these women if you knew how

W haT I s d ay G aMe ?

What if I told you that it’s possible to approach these beautiful strangers and have something positive result from almost all of your interactions?

Would you think I’m nuts?

Cold approaching is walking up and talking to a complete stranger I should know I’ve had a history of being a salesman

Several years ago, I’ve spent a couple of months standing inside a phone booth

in the middle of a mall, trying to get people to buy our products I’d always be shouting “Hey sir, do you want to sign up for our service today?” yada yada yada

It rarely worked because I was already asking for the sale before I even got a chance to get to know the customer Heck, I didn’t even know their name I learned that building a relationship before asking for the sale was a must, and it did make sense

If selling something was possible without building a relationship with the customer, then there would be no need for salespeople

Occasionally, people would stop by for a minute to check out the things I had

to say But, more often than not, they’d just continue walking

What does sales have to do with being successful with girls?

After failing to produce results in my job, I tried and experimented with a lot

of different techniques, and that’s when I learned something… If my initial approach was unique, then people usually gave me a bit of their time

Remember the time someone tried to start a conversation with you? What happened?

a n e ye o pener on C old a pproaChInG

You probably heard them open with a familiar line like:

“Hey what’s going on?”

“Nice weather…”

“It’s a pretty long line, isn’t it”

Chances are you reply with some sort of answer, depending on your mood Then

the conversation comes to an end and you either say “Nice talking to you” or

just simply turn around and carry on with your business

Looking back, why did you talk to that person? Was it out of politeness or were

you interested in getting to know them as a person?

Chances are it was out of politeness

How often are you approached by a homeless person asking for money? How

do you deal with it? Are you polite or do you brush them off?

I’m sure it comes to a point where you just have a set of prepared answers

that you say when you get the same question If you can relate to this scenario

then

Women get approached or hit on all the time They’ve developed tolerance to

men and the ability to be emotionally detached from the interaction

It’s not their fault and I certainly don’t blame them for being rude sometimes

There are a lot of whackos out there

The first thing you need to do is find a way to bypass her social filters What does

that mean?

You’ve got to approach her in a way that she’s not accustomed Your goal is to

get her into a state of mind where she’s susceptible to be led

Make or Break Moment

The first couple of seconds after you meet a person is what I call the make or

break moment

It’s probably one of the most crucial moments of the interaction simply because

it opens the door for escalating the conversation

W elCoMe T o W oMen ’ s e veryday r ealITy

It’s like going to someone’s house and pushing the doorbell Just because someone opens the door, it doesn’t mean you get to go in and do whatever you want

Women will usually, if you’ve got your whole presence and communication skills down, open the door for you a little bit But don’t expect them to be all over you after you’ve initiated the conversation

That’s just setting yourself up for failure

I’m going to go with the assumption that everyone’s time is special We all have things to do and people to see Most of the people you meet out there will have

a very short attention span

Most women will give you somewhere between three seconds and three minutes to captivate their interest That’s your window of opportunity, there are

no second chances if you mess it up

A lot of your time, when you first start out, will be focused on perfecting the first few minutes of the interaction It will be your first road block to success

Do you know where you’re heading?

If you don’t then you might want to start brainstorming

If you want to be successful with women, there’s one thing you need to do first You have to set a goal for yourself If you don’t have one, then by the end of this section, you should have one

Goal setting is very important for various reasons It gives you an overall direction

so you know where you’re going It’s always a good feeling knowing you’re working toward something that will benefit you in the long run

It motivates you and keeps you on track If you have a vision of what you want your life to be then that is your incentive to work harder If it’s something you really want then you WILL achieve it

A lot of people out there are like chickens running around with their heads cut off They have no goals set for themselves

So I want you to take sometime to answer these questions Have a pen and paper ready Don’t skip this part You’ll find it very useful on your journey

C reaTInG a v IsIon

Realistically speaking, what do you really want to accomplish? You’re

obviously investing a lot of your time and effort into learning how to be

successful with women What’s in it for you in the long run? Like, in 10

years, where do you see yourself? What kind of person will you be by

then? What kind of girl/girls will be with you? What’s your lifestyle going to

be? What’s the difference between who you are now and who you want

to be?

How long do you think it will take you to accomplish your overall goal?

Have you set daily, weekly, and monthly goals to ensure that you’re

constantly improving you skill set? How much time and effort do you need

to put into this? What strategies do you have in order to stay consistent

and committed to getting this part of your life handled?

That’s just for starters These questions should aid you in coming up with a solid

vision of who you want to be and what steps you need to take in order to

accomplish that

Okay you have your plan, now what?! Anything on paper is just writing unless

you put it to work

I know it’s a good feeling to have so much information that your brain begins to

swell One piece of advice though: Information isn’t power, it’s potential power

Once you’ve figured out what you want, the next step is to stick to your plan no

matter what happens until you start to see results

•

•

a CTInG o n y our p lan

Know exactly what you want to accomplish If you haven’t done this by now, then don’t continue reading Put the book down and start working on it

For example: “In six months, I want to have the ability to date three new girls that

I meet in the mall, every single week” or “I want to have a smoking hot girlfriend that’s half my age, and has a kick ass personality”

Devise a plan on how you’re going to accomplish your goal What steps are needed in order to accomplish your plan? How long is it going to take and what does it require of me? Make sure to always stick to that plan For example: “In order for me to be able to date three new girls a

week, I should get my skill set to that level I need to interact with seven new girls three times a week for six months I should always be pushing the interaction as far as it can go every time I shouldn’t commit the same mistake again After six months, I’ll be able to hold a conversation with a girl for 30 minutes, and schedule a date with her at the end.”

Or “If I want a hot girlfriend I should be more experienced with hot women I will surround myself with the kind of women I’d like to date and learn how to be comfortable in their presence I’ll try to go on as many dates as I can so I can get experience under my belt I’m also going to work on the different aspects of my life so that I become relationship material.”

Get all the right information that you need in order to get this part of your life handled Make sure you use this information as a guideline and makes sure you’re on the right track

For example: “I was able to talk to several girls today It was fun but I just can’t seem to get her to open up to me I’m going to look for resources out there that will solve the problem for me Or I can look for someone qualified to help me out I’ll make sure that they can give me personalized and individualized attention After getting advice, I’ll make sure to

implement the things I learned right away.”

1

2

4 s Teps To I nCrease The e ffeCTIveness of G oal s eTTInG

Review all your results, find the strong and weak points, then make the

necessary adjustments This is the only way to keep progressing

For example: “Last month, I got five numbers and out of those numbers,

three girls called me back This month I got eight numbers but none of

them called me back So I need to review all my interactions and see

where I’m screwing things up Did I build enough emotional connection

with her? Did I convey my personality well enough? Am I giving up easily

without following up? If so how can I improve my skill? I should try calling

her more often…”

This is a very simple structure you can use in order to assess your progress

You should be able to analyze yourself and construct positive criticism

This is an essential skill to develop

I’m about to provide you with the most comprehensive information ever

available on how use the 8 Essential Day Game Factors to dramatically increase

your success with women

You see, I’ve identified a total of 8 Essential Day Game Factors that must be

addressed if you want to maximize your success rate!

You must first understand all of the factors and how they affect your ability to

meet, connect, and date the woman of your choice

The 8 Essential Day Factors are structured in a way that helps build you up,

starting from your core, then slowly focuses on the techniques and tactical part

of the interaction

The main goal of the upcoming section is to provide you with a comprehensive

foundation for daytime pick-up In order to efficiently improve your skills, I

suggest that you spend some time mastering EACH section of the book

Here’s a QUICK PEEK at what’s coming up

3

I nTroduCTIon To The 8 e ssenTIal d ay G aMe f aCTors

FACTOR : INNER STRENGTH

We’ll start to build you up from the very core of your personality I’ll discuss inner strength in depth and take you step by step so that you can develop a solid foundation

Don’t worry, I’ll only be throwing stuff at you that I know you’d need I’m confident that by the end of this book, you’ll have a basic understanding of what inner strength is and how you can use it to gain an unfair advantage over other guys

FACTOR : IDENTITY

Do you know why most guys fail to keep a woman interested in them? Or even worse, why they can’t keep a woman in their life? It’s because they don’t develop the ability to convey their identity

I’ll go over the key concepts of identity building and how to effectively communicate who you are as a person

FACTOR : LONG TERM AND SHORT TERM VALUE

This chapter is guaranteed to raise a few eyebrows out there I’ll explain to you the importance of long term and short term value and how it affects all your interactions

I’ll show you where most guys fail and how you can avoid most of the pitfalls out there

FACTOR : EMOTIONAL CONNECTION

Emotional Connection is what I like to call “The Heart of Day Game”

This is my favorite part of every interaction and you’re about to find out

why! I go over specific time-tested tactics that I’ve used to establish a

long lasting emotional bond that gets her to dream about you even

after you’re gone!

This is a very effective tool that increases the chances of you going

on a date with her! I’ll go over the proper way to build an emotional

connection and the opportune moment for you to start engaging her

in this type of interaction

FACTOR : COMFORT AND TRUST

Most guys just don’t know how to build comfort and trust with the

women they meet This chapter talks about the things you must do

and avoid

FACTOR : LEADING & LOGISTICS

If you haven’t learned yet, let me be the first to tell you… Logistics is

one thing that you do not have full control over I’ll give you a couple

of tips on how you can maximize the effectiveness of the interaction

by utilizing our logistic planning method

In this chapter, I’ll show you specifically how to get the girl from the

mall to your bedroom!

FACTOR : INVESTMENT

In order for anyone to be successful with women, he must first master

the art of making her invest in the interaction

Look no further! In this chapter, I’ve compiled the most comprehensive

approach to increase control over the interaction and decreasing the

number of women flaking on you I’ve decided to just go all out and

reveal four major investment categories

Section 2:

the 8 eSSentiAl dAY gAMe dAting FActorS

I know that most of you just want to learn what to say, in other words, “the lines”

I don’t blame you at all, I was the same as you when I first started out You want

to know what happened several years later?

I sat down and told myself “If only I just build up myself first, things would have been so much easier for me…” So save yourself a lot of time and read and understand this section first before you go onto the next one

A lot of successful guys, I know, have one thing in common This is the one thing that fuels them day in and day out It’s that bright light at the end of the tunnel It’s the driving force behind all their successes

I’ve tried to put my finger on it in the past but it took me quite sometime to figure out what it was I used to think to myself, “What does this guy have that I don’t, I mean, we both have charismatic personalities and great sense of style There’s something about him that makes him complete as a person.”

I really thought I would never figure it out Until this one day came

My friend and I were just chatting about life I hadn’t seen him in years because

he was stationed in Iraq I admired this guy for his strength and courage I always wondered how he was able to do it

So to make a long story short I asked him “It takes a lot of guts to do what you did How were you able to handle it? Back in those days when you were stationed in Iraq, what were you thinking of?”

He replied:

“All those days I spent there just help built me up as a person Most people probably hated being there, I just accepted it I knew there would be a lot of people who’d be negative about the experience I had that choice I had two choices: should I go through all of this hardship, be negative all the time, and be the same person I was to begin with? Or should I just barrel through this period with my head held up high, cherish every moment of my journey, and end up to

be a better person? I chose the latter I just knew that I had it in me to succeed

f aCTor 1: I nner s TrenGTh

I suddenly had one of those “Light bulb popping up in your head” moments

These moments don’t come to me that often but whenever they do, they

always hit me hard over the head

You’ve Been Programmed to Fail with Women and You Probably Don’t Even

Know It!

We all walk through this world with our beliefs These beliefs have been

integrated into our being, probably since we were little kids What we believe

in is a product of the things we were exposed to all our lives There are a lot of

factors that have molded us to be the person we are today Examples of such

WOOOOWW! That’s a lot of factors influencing us Sad to say, we’ve been

programmed like robots to act in a self-sabotaging way toward women

Let’s start out with media and advertising

Love makes the world go round and money keeps it spinning…

For the most part, we live in a society that’s driven by money, power, or fame

The ones on the top set the rules so that everyone can follow Not only that, they

set the standard of what is cool, attractive, and desirable

Let’s take on the subject of appearance

Contrary to popular belief, appearance isn’t everything You can still get laid

even if you do not look like the guy from the cover of a fashion magazine You

can get a girl even if you’re not rich, not well built, or not tall You can make a

beautiful girl with an outstanding personality fall for you regardless of your race!

All of this may be hard to comprehend but it will make sense to you in a minute

Let’s take a good look at magazines for a second This is true for both men and

women alike

Who do you see on the covers of popular magazines? I’m sure you all know the answer to this one:

CelebritiesAttractive and fit peopleRich people

And everything else I forgot to mention

Am I the only one that sees what’s going on here?

Where can you find the hottest men and women? Usually on the front of

a magazine, where there sculpted bodies are exposed and their stunning facial features modified to intimidate almost anyone

The average girl would think “That’s the girl that everyone in my school thinks is hot! She’s skinny and she wears (Insert brand name of clothing here), I need to buy everything she has and be like her so I can be hot too…”

Same thing for a guy “Oh, that guy has the hottest girl I’ve ever seen He’s rich, tall, famous… He even has the fastest car around, he has this sick ass watch, and…”

To make the long story short, both the man and woman in this example end up concluding

“In order to be desirable, cool, and up to date I need to have this, be this, and join this…”

And whoever said advertising wasn’t effective? What actually happened was that the media brainwashed people into thinking that they need all of this in order to be cool

The truth is… YOU DON’TYeah being rich, tall, famous helps but it’s not the only way Anyone armed with the techniques and philosophies I’ll discuss in this book can attract the kind of woman that’s usually reserved for the good looking, famous, and rich!

IT’S TIME TO RE-PROGRAM YOURSELF TO YOUR ADVANTAGE!

Have you ever heard of the saying perception is reality?

Your thoughts become your words

Your words become your actions

Your belief becomes who you are

What if I told you that everything that you believe in, only if you really really

believed in it, becomes who you are? Would you believe me?

You better, because by reframing some self-sabotaging beliefs, you too can

be successful with women This is where everyone should start regardless of

their goal

What if you can reprogram your entire self, so you can move through the world

naturally attracting people in your life?

Before I hear any objections, you’re not going to be someone you’re not You’re

just going to be a better version of yourself

You have to live up to your full potential It makes me sad to see all the guys out

there that are still walking through life brainwashed by society If only I could

snap them out of their trance… but then again, that would be too idealistic

of me

Alright, back to my story

After I talked to the guy and realized everything I just told you, my whole world

changed, literally before my very own eyes I adopted bits and pieces of his

philosophy in life, and went on a journey to seek the truth Ever since then I

began seeing some amazing results from all the interactions, struggles, and

relationships that I’ve had

And that’s when it occurred to me that…

YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE, BELIEVE, BELIEVE!

I’ve learned a couple of lessons that I will be sharing with you These have been

very useful for me and hopefully will be for you

Change will not occur overnight, but the sooner you start believing, the faster

you’ll get to your destination I’m just sharing with you everything that’s worked

for me and the thousands of guys I’ve trained after I discovered everything I’m

about to share with you

Here’s how this works I’ll be discussing 8 Inner Strength Lessons that I’ve found

to be very useful in my journey For the next 30 days, I want you to go over this

chapter again and again Don’t stop reading until you start practicing and

believing the 8 Inner Strength Lessons I will also provide you with exercises so

your belief is reinforced with real world results

INNER STRENGTH LESSON : MY PRESENCE ALONE IS VALUABLE TO OTHERS

Have you ever had the feeling that you’re not worthy to even talk to someone? Have you ever hesitated to approach a woman just because you had that damn “Why should she even talk to me? I’m not her type… and besides, I don’t know what to say” speech playing in your head?

Let me ask you this, how can you be so sure she thinks that way if you haven’t even approached her yet?

Okay, but I’ve approached girls in the past and they’ve shot me down more times than I can think of…

Just because you had one bad meal in your life doesn’t mean you should stop eating right? Every girl is different Every situation is different If you believe that everything you say or do is valuable, then it will be valuable to others

Starting now, I want you to believe that your presence alone is valuable to others

I’m sure there’s a time in the past when you were yourself and everyone just loved you The time when, all of a sudden, people were hanging off every word you said The time when you were relaxed and comfortable with yourself

TRY THIS OUT

I want you to start looking back and remember the times where you were indeed valuable to other people I want you to remember the times when you made several people feel good about themselves

Got that memory? How does it make you feel?

Have you ever surprised someone with something really special before? What did you feel like before you gave it to them? Felt good didn’t it? That’s how you should feel before talking to anyone You’re doing them a favor by talking to them

Try this out, next time before you talk to someone, imagine that you’re about to give them a million bucks in the next five minutes, how does that change the way you act toward them? Try it out

INNER STRENGTH LESSON : TAKE WHAT’S YOURS! NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR WHO

YOU ARE AND THE THINGS YOU DO! YOU ARE YOUR OWN BOSS!

There’s one thing that you will realize later on…

You can do anything you want, whenever you want, wherever you want And

you can get away with it

Once again, we’ve been programmed by society to look up to others for

“permission” to do something we want to do

Remember the time when you were in grade school? You had to ask permission

every single time you went for a trip to the rest room Well, by the time you got

to college, you just probably stood up and went straight for the rest room didn’t

you?

Another example is the very famous Bill Gates Do you think he ever asked

permission if he could start up a business and drop out of school as it took off?

Nope, he just had a plan, executed it, and never looked back

So what do you want to do? What’s stopping you?

You are your own boss You have permission to go after the things you want

in life You have permission to be the best that you can be And you have

permission to date any girl you want regardless of what anyone says You have

permission to change your beliefs

I want you to live life like you own the world Everything is yours You do not need

anyone’s approval before you do something You do not need permission to

dress in a certain way You already have it in you

It’s about time to free yourself from the prison that your mind is in

Here are some tips you can start integrating in your life:

It’s always better to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission Next

time you go out to the malls and you see a bench with an open spot, just

go ahead and sit down Don’t ask anyone for permission just do it

Make your own decision and take your own stand Don’t wait for others

to tell you what to do Don’t look for others to make decisions for you You

can do them yourself Always voice out your opinions Don’t be afraid

to state your opinions just because someone else thinks otherwise Don’t

be afraid to spark tension Always say what’s on your mind, if you don’t

agree with someone simply say “I disagree” and leave it at that

•

•

Learn how to say “No” It’s hard to get used to saying “no” but you have to give it a shot Just try saying it It’s not that bad You’ll notice that people will begin to respect you more because you’re upfront

You wouldn’t want to be known as the “yes” man If it’s reasonable and you’re up for it then say “yes” If it will compromise you or for some reason you just don’t feel comfortable with it then say “no”

I’m not trying to impress you This boils down to being who you are despite what other people think Don’t ever change just because someone else wants you to Don’t be ashamed of your past, background, or status Be proud, stand tall, and don’t bow down to someone just because you perceive them as being better than you One motto you can use is “I’m not trying to impress you… And you sure have to do more than that to impress me”

TRY THIS OUT

Let’s start out with simple exercises The next time you’re about to line up, and someone gets there the same time you did, don’t hesitate to just smile and take the spot first

When you’re at a party and someone asks: “Who wants such and such drinks” Don’t hesitate to raise your hand first and say “Over here”

Wear an outrageous piece of clothing and when someone give you a hard time about it just smile and say “Thank you”

•

•

Do you know what people think of the first time they meet you?

Do you know the first thing that pops up in a woman’s head the moment you

approach her?

Do you know what she will think about the minute she gets home after meeting

you?

“Who in the world is this guy?”

So let me throw the question at you… Who Are You?

Trust me, every single person you meet will wonder who you are They ask you

questions for a purpose They are trying to form a picture of who you are as a

person

Your job is to convey your identity all throughout an interaction The clothes you

wear, the stories you tell, and the way you present yourself to others, all of these

play an important role in establishing your identity

So what exactly is your identity? Continue reading because this whole chapter is

dedicated to the subject of identity

It All Started When You Were A Kid

“There are two great moments in a person’s life: the moment they were born

and the moment they realize why they were born.” - Mark Sanborne

So What Did You Want To Be When You Were Seven?

When I was seven years old I wanted to be a rock star I wanted to be that

guy that rocked people’s world with his guitar I wanted to be that guy in the

spotlight that made people jump to the beat of his melody

It seemed just like yesterday, when I’d just jump off the bed with a broomstick

trying to mimic Slash from Guns n Roses

Why did I choose that as a kid? Beats me, I don’t really know Maybe because

it looked cool on television Maybe I wanted to be a rock star because I’d be

famous worldwide Or maybe it was what everybody wanted at that time

f aCTor 2: I denTITy

The truth is, I never really thought about it until three weeks ago when I was in a car with a bunch of friends Then out of nowhere someone started playing my song on the radio That’s when it struck me

I’m an artist! I’m a musician! I really did achieve what I wanted when I was a kid

I didn’t stray away from it

I thought I would never be an artist because of what everybody said to me…

“Being a musician won’t get you anywhere… It’s useless, you’re better of just having a 9-5 job where you can make a constant stream of income”

Unfortunately, when I was a kid, I had no other choice but to listen to what everyone said Becoming a musician was a dream It really came from the heart but at such an early age, I was easily influenced by my parents, peers, and teachers

Now that I look back, I realize that each and everyone of us had dreams when

we were little As a result of growing up, we tend to stop feeling and just start thinking

Not that thinking it’s a bad thing, we just need a balance of both

One of my favorite sculptors, Michelangelo, once said “The Sculpture is already

in the stone” and I never forgot that

It just put the pieces of the puzzle together for me

It means that every single time that Michelangelo worked on chipping away pieces of his sculpture, he was already done before he started Yes, the product was already finished, all he had to do was to chip away all the unnecessary stuff

I believe that the person we want to be is already inside of us We were all created unique and special We were born to experience life and with that experience we grow and we learn We become better versions of ourselves Success is in already inside all of us

So let me ask you this: What did you want to be when you were seven years old?

How to Discover Who You Are

I’m not going to keep you waiting any longer Here are several ways to discover who you are

I want you to pull out a piece of paper and jot down some notes You’ll need some time to work on this This is a very important section in this book If there’s one thing I want you to accomplish after you finish reading this book, then this is it

What Did You Want To Be When You Were Seven? Come on, think back,

and write it down Write it all down

Make a List of Everything You Want to Become Sky is the limit folks I want

you to write down everything No one can see what you write No one will

judge what you write

What are the Three Things You Like About Yourself You could probably

never stop listing reasons here But please try to restrain yourself I only

want you to write down three

Make a List of 15 Goals For Next Year It can be related to fitness, health,

business, dating, relationship, and traveling It can be a big or small goal

Don’t force yourself to finish all these exercises in a day Some exercises

will take time to finish

List 25 Things That Make You Happy What makes you smile? What are the

things you look forward to in the day? What’s your reward after a long

day’s work?

Write Down Some of Your Main Theories, Beliefs, and Philosophies in Life

What are the things that you value in life? What are the important things?

What do you stand by? What do you fight for?

What are Your Three Biggest Accomplishments? By listing them, you’ll

discover what you’re passionate about It will reaffirm in your mind that

you, indeed, are talented

When you’re finished writing I want you to post it somewhere you can see

it everyday

Read it as often as you want for 30 days straight It always feels nice to remind

yourself who you are Be proud of who you are Embrace it with both arms

Don’t be afraid to let everyone see

So how is this useful in social interactions?

Simple

Most men end interactions without really conveying their identity, the things

their passionate about, and the things they believe in

This leaves women with a blank picture on their head of who you are as a

person It’s always good to be mysterious but you should also find a way to

convey your identity all through out the interaction

So, what do you do when you run out of things to say? An effective strategy

is to just talk about something you’re really passionate about Discuss your perspectives on life, art, travel, music, and anything your heart fancies

Remember, talk about the things that are interesting to you If you’re enthusiastic about it then it becomes interesting to her Bring her into your world Give her a taste of what it’s like to be in your shoes for a minute

Discovering who you are and the things that make you tick is something you should work on regardless of your goals in life Having this knowledge of yourself

is so important especially when you’re interacting with people

It provides them with a window to your being and this makes you interesting It puts you into a positive light but it’s still not enough to get you into any kind of relationship

You need to provide value

TRY THIS OUT

This weekend, I want you to do an activity you enjoy doing but haven’t done in

a long time Invite your friends along and have a blast Do this at least every two weeks If you run out of things to do, try something new

So, I hear that you want to the secrets to dating women of particular quality

and beauty during the daytime… In order to learn how to communicate with

women, you must first understand them

Let me start out by giving you a glimpse of what it’s like to be an attractive

woman

It’s no secret that women get hit on all the time

Just last week, I was walking in the mall with two girls, and a salesman pops up

out of nowhere and asks one of the girls I’m with “Would you like to go out on a

date with me?” I think that’s what he said, it was hard to understand him with

his accent

Anyway, we weren’t mean to the poor guy or anything After all he had balls

of steel for doing that We smiled, waved, and took off Then I suddenly realized

something

If these girls got hit on twice when they were with me, then I wonder what

happens when I’m not even present

How Women Decide If You’re A Contestant

Most women have several choices of men from which to pick So why should

she give you the time of day? What is in it for her?

I hate to phrase it this way but at the end of the day, it boils down to one

question

Are you an asset or a liability? It sounds so ridiculous but it’s true

In this society, women usually pick the guys that can provide the most value

to their life

Value is determined by a lot of things such as social status, appearance,

personality, communication, lifestyle, and all the others I’m about to discuss

Value is broken down in to the categories: short and long term value

f aCTor 3: l onG T erM and s horT T erM v alue

Short Term Value & Ways You Can Build It Up!

Short term value is determined by the experience you give women the first time you meet them

Let’s say you see a pretty woman as you walk into a coffee shop There’s one problem though, she’s busy reading something Do you have what it takes to get her to want to slam her book down and just talk to you?

It’s not impossible It happens most of the time, in my experience If she perceives you as being more valuable than what she’s currently doing, then she will go out of her way just to talk to you

That’s the power of short term value Now let’s go into some examples of how you can cultivate short term value

Always provide positive emotions People tend to gravitate toward people that make them feel good Your job is to provide positive emotions like fun, excitement, happiness, comfort, etc Once you find a way to provide these emotions, you’ll instantly be magnetic to women You’ll notice that women want to be around you more often They’ll call you and even pester you to hang out with them

Develop your own signature presence Become unique This is done

by conveying a rich and textured personality It doesn’t specifically mean that you have come up with something super original There’s

a big chance that somewhere in the world, someone’s doing exactly what you’re doing So the key is to be unique in that given environment Some ways of doing this are the way you groom and present yourself Communication is a tool you can use to your advantage but that’s in another chapter

Laugh, Laugh, Laugh with them… If you have the skill to make women laugh, then you’re already ahead of the game You will get far with humor Laughter is a good feeling It’s addictive Almost like a drug It’s the moment when we shut the whole world off for a second and connect with ourselves Laughter serves two purposes: Builds attraction within a girl and creates an unspoken bond between the both of you You want to

be able to laugh together Do you remember the last time you shared a laugh with someone? Now, stop, just thinking about that moment… How did it make you feel? See my point

Let your inner teacher shine Intelligence is another tool you can use to captivate a woman’s mind The fact that you’re educated You don’t have to be as smart as Albert Einstein, in fact you don’t have to be smart

at all to pull this off All you need are a few interesting topics in which you’re quite familiar If you can share your ideas with her passionately,

•

•

•

•

interest I know it’s easier said then done Teach her a couple of things

about your culture, traditions, language, a few fun games you probably

learned as a kid, a trick, and a handshake

You can go on with this, the possibilities are endless Just remember, share

your knowledge with the world, teach everyone something Show ‘em

what you got!

You are the leader Your job as a man is to lead the interaction If you

expect her to lead and even make the first move, then you’re setting

yourself up for disappointment This can be conveyed with your attitude

and the right assertiveness Take her by the hand and make it easy for

her Lead the conversation Lead the interaction Don’t be afraid to take

a stand and follow it up with an action If you want her number then

just ask for it Instead of saying “Do you want to come?” say “Let’s go”

instead If she says “I’m not sure about this” say “You’re gonna love it, trust

me” Always lead and reassure her that she’s safe with you

Classy, Cultured and Worldly Classy defines someone who has high

standard of personal behavior This is usually learned through your family

and the people you’re surrounded by It’s also an advantage if you’ve

done some traveling Are your outfits coordinated well? Does your belt

match your shoes? Do you understand poetry and the different works of

art? Do you know the best restaurants in your city? Do you understand

the world of fashion? Do you know a couple of classic movies? If you’re

equipped with this, then it will be very hard for women not to notice you

Romantic Women love romance Don’t believe me? Did you know that

romance novels account for majority of the sales in bookstores? And that’s

why women just love a guy that can give them the romantic fantasy If

you can be a substitute for a romantic novel then, as my friend Rish would

say, “You’re so F****** money and you don’t even know it man”

Happy, Joyful, and Enthusiastic Women are drawn to guys that are

happy, joyful, and enthusiastic These positive emotions bring value to

their lives Wouldn’t you?

Decisive Always have an opinion, decision, and a plan Never say “I

don’t know” Always make it a point to be a decision maker If you step

into that role she will allow you to play the role Women constantly test

for this They want a man who knows what he wants For example, when

she says “Where are we going?” say “We’re going to grab some ice

cream Let’s go”

•

•

•

•

LONG TERM VALUE & WAYS YOU CAN BUILD IT UP

So you’ve learned how to demonstrate short term value Now it’s time to cultivate your long term value

Short term value opens the door to her life You have to walk a little bit to get through the door and make sure that you stay in it Your long term value is responsible for keeping a girl hooked on you

Remember, a girl decides if she wants to see you again, continue the relationship, or go on a date with you when you’re not there! These are the times when she probably evaluates you as a package and sees if you’re worth it

As hard as it sounds, these are the things that go on behind closed doors

That’s why you want to give her the best option so she can make an educated decision

Sounds like a sales pitch right? Right The whole courting process is very similar to sales The only difference is that you’re not selling an actual product

YOU ARE SELLING YOURSELF!

Here are the features that you can add on to increase your long term value

Become a renaissance man It’s time to rediscover and redefine yourself Here’s a short description I found on the internet A renaissance man is considered a man at the centre of the universe, limitless in his capacities for development Do something new every single month Do something adventurous, dangerous, or exciting and live to talk about it Pick up

a book every two weeks and read it Make your life an open book

And don’t forget to make it an interesting book Make it a routine to continuously be learning Boredom is the enemy

Emotional Connection Coming up in the next couple of chapters Stay tuned!

Dare to Dream Ambition is a strong desire to achieve something in life From experience, I can always tell the people who are ambitious from the ones that aren’t It’s hard to explain over in text, but it’s sort of like a gut feeling Lean more toward the energy that they give off I think this is one major factor for women who are looking for a commitment Women crave men who are ambitious They smell this quality a mile away There are a lot of ways ambition can be conveyed The most obvious one is the way one talks about life

•

•

•

Financially self-sufficient “I want a guy who is rich, tall, and handsome” I

can’t count how many times I’ve heard that phrase from women I hate

to admit it but money is a deciding factor in the dating game It’s not

a prerequisite for her to date you but it plays a huge role if you want to

have a smooth long term relationship Don’t you wonder what women

are trying to find out when they ask “So, what do you do for a living?”

They’re trying to get a glimpse of how much money you earn I’m not

saying that all women are gold diggers All I’m trying to say is that women

screen the men to see if they are relationship material You need to be

able to support yourself and show potential for becoming financially

stable one day

Self-assuredness This is similar to being confident This is conveyed with the

way you speak and carry yourself How do you move through the world?

Are you afraid to take up space in the world? Or are you comfortable in

your own skin? Do you let bad criticisms get to you? Or do you accept

them confidently? A simple test would be a woman giving you a hard

time about something you either wear or do, now how do you respond

to it? Do you get all offended and convincing her that you’re a cool guy

deep down inside? Or do you just accept it with a smile, say “thank you”,

and move on to the next topic?

Keep ‘em Guessing Unpredictability is the spice of life Being predictable

takes the excitement out of a relationship or interaction It’s not good

to be too unpredictable either It’s good to create a contrast in your

personality At times be romantic and shower her with attention and the

next day treat her like one of your buddies It’s fun They get all excited

when you do this

Tenderness and Sensitivity This can be demonstrated by the way you

treat her Do you listen to her when she opens up to you? Do you act as

a protector and make sure she’s always taken care of? Do you steer her

around corners when you guys are walking around? Do you make her

feel comfortable at times when she’s not?

Assertive, Firm and Strong Do you assert your wishes on others? Do you

make sure that you’ve got everything under control? Do you bargain

your way into getting something you really want? Do you take a stand a

support it fully?

Sex God It is no secret that women love men that are great in bed

Women are sexual beings just like we are They enjoy sex as much as we

do Sex releases endorphins and it relaxes the body Women like men that

can give them a wonderful experience They also like men that know

exactly how to press their buttons and provide satisfaction

These are some of the essential components to building long term value

By now, if you’ve been doing everything right, you should have a killer understanding of inner foundation, big goal concepts, and a couple of helpful tips

Remember, you can have the best line or script in the world but if you can’t present it well, it’s useless That’s the reason why communicating effectively is a topic I spend several hours teaching at the workshops

TRY THIS OUT

Read through this chapter again When you’re done, I want you to take a good look at yourself and your life

Now go through each quality I mentioned in this chapter and rate yourself from 1-5 (1 being the lowest and 5 the highest)

If you’re below 3 in one of the qualities I outlined here, then take a week to focus on this specific quality You at least need to be between 3-5 in all ranges in order to be successful with women

Your communication skills will either make or break you in your quest for success

in all areas of your life Whether you’re working on presenting an idea to other

people, describing a movie you watched to your friends, or instructing a cab

driver where you want to go, you need to be able to communicate effectively

You must develop strong and effective communication skills in order to get what

you want in life That’s the secret to success beyond your wildest dream I’m not

going to sugar coat it That’s all it is Actually, probably not, there’s more to it

than that, but it’s a key ingredient my friend

Let me give you an example

Contestant # 1- Mr Average Guy

General Scenario: Mr Average Guy is innocently looking for clothes to buy And

then, he notices something moving from his side He looks over and notices big

boobs, nice hair, a body to die for, and a Mona Lisa smile In that moment, Mr

Average Guy’s hormones go wild He starts getting excited or nervous and he

knows why Deep down, he wants her

Wow, that was fast, she got him all excited in less than a second…

Contestant # 2- Ms Plain or Hot Jane

Scenario 1: Ms Plain Jane is ordering a drink at Starbucks She sees this guy

He’s smoking hot She’s excited but she’s not going to give it all away because

of that Mr Hot Stuff makes his way to talk to her After three minutes of boring

conversation and ineffective communication, Ms Plain Jane starts to slowly face

away from Mr Hot Stuff Two minutes later, she deploys her killer line: “Oh, I didn’t

even notice the time I almost forgot I have to rush back home because I left

the light on my boyfriend’s room It was nice meeting you though, tata!”

Scenario 2: Ms Hot Jane is ordering a drink at Starbucks She sees this average

looking guy He seems to carry himself well and has a good sense of style She

heads over to the table to sit down Next thing you know, he walks toward her

and starts talking Minutes pass by Hours pass by She’s enjoying the moment

She stands up and leaves the coffee shop with him He started out as a stranger

and left like her lover

So what was the component that determined success and failure in each

interaction?

f aCTor 4: e ffeCTIve C oMMunICaTIon

Effective communication

Just think about it, you can live the most interesting life in the world You can have 99 good qualities about you but unless you know how to effectively communicate them, it’s useless No one else will find out all these positive things about you

You are what you communicate

When you know how to communicate well you can get

What you want, when you want it, and how you want itYour message across clearly for anyone to understandRecognized for your ability to comm-YOU-nicate who you are, your beliefs, and your values in life

Women to feel exactly any emotion that you want them to feel allowing you to control and predict the outcome of your interactions

More dates and maintain relationships easily

The Communication Equation Individual + Effective Method of Presentation + Powerful Content of Presentation

=Effective Communication

TRY THIS OUT

Go out to a coffee shop one of these days and order your favorite drink

Does the barista ask you any questions afterward?

Good Remember what she says Now the next time you go out, make sure your order is so clear that you won’t be barraged with questions after your order.Just try it out for fun, it’s a really cool exercise

I’ve experimented with a lot of conversation starters in public places And believe

me, when I say a lot, I mean a lot Along the way, I noticed that some techniques

worked better than the others (more about techniques in the last chapter) but

there was always one thing common that made my approach work

It worked because of the way I presented it

It’s all about how you present yourself Have you ever heard the saying “People

buy you first before anything else” I found that saying to be true

Having said that, here are six helpful tips to increase the power of your presence:

Learn how to smile There have been several studies shown that women

prefer men that smile while initiating a conversation, rather than being all

serious and mysterious Smiling makes women feel comfortable It eases

women up at times when they’re nervous A genuine smile can take you

a long way

Communicate with your eyes Did you know that there is a way to use

eye contact to increase the effectiveness of your communication? It’s

very important to hold eye contact at certain points in the interaction

Holding eye contact builds trust and comfort I guess the saying “The eyes

are the windows to the soul” does have meaning

Facial expression Your facial expressions can communicate messages of

their own Facial expressions are used to convey emotions like anger, joy,

disgust, fear, sadness, and surprise This helps to get your message across

more effectively Practice using a variety of facial expressions when you

tell people stories It makes a big difference It really does

Fashion How stylish are you? What kind of fashion statement are you

making? What can people tell about you by the way you dress up? Does

your style leave a good or bad impression on others? Do you command

attention?

It’s not what you say but how you say it How’s your vocal projection and

delivery Do you slow down your pace when you’re emphasizing a point?

Do you use pauses to amp up the tension and intrigue? Do you speak

loud and clear for people to hear? Do you speak from your diaphragm or

nasal? Do you eat your words? Are you relaxed when you speak?

Body Language Are you comfortable with the way you stand, sit,

or walk? Are you relaxed and calm during most times? Do you lean

back when you talk to her? Do you move unnecessarily during the

conversation? Your non-verbal communication is the window to who

you are Women are masters when it comes to reading body language

They categorize you based on how you stand up, how relaxed you are,

and how you carry yourself

Body Language Tips for Day Game

“Your body language, the way you walk, and the way you move through this world on a daily basis, will provide women with enough information to categorize you based on the impression you just gave them”

Have you ever thought about the things you convey about yourself based on your body language?

Did you know that women can tell if you’re confident and cool or nervous and inexperienced just by the observing the way you walk, talk and carry yourself?

I think that body language is the biggest giveaway when it comes to revealing who you are and how you feel

So here’s to a good first impression

The  Commandments of Effective Body Language

Thou shall not shake or move a lot in the presence of an attractive woman Men tend to easily get intimidated with women that are way above their league It’s really funny to watch It usually goes like this: Man sees attractive woman Man starts to smile nervously Man starts to make unnecessary movement because of the extra energy he feels Man gets very jittery When woman gets close, man tends to change his behaviors and act way cooler then he really is If you’re nervous all throughout the interaction, chances are she’ll be nervous too

Thou shall not have thy hands inside the front pockets Never have your hand inside your front pockets when you initiate a conversation with anyone unless it’s below freezing and you don’t have any gloves For some reason, I feel comfortable when my hands are out of my pockets

At the same time, don’t move your hands around too much when you talk

Thou shall not stand or sit too close or too far from her If you stay to close

to her, right from the bat, then she will feel very uncomfortable If you’re too far from her, then it won’t feel like it’s a conversation I’ve had success with starting off at about 3-5 feet away, and slowly get closer at specific points of the interaction Try mixing it up At high and fun points take a step closer or move your chair closer At low points step away a little bit Experiment with it

Thou shall relax and lean back I’ve discovered that when you assume

a relaxed position, even if you’re nervous, you slowly start to feel more relaxed Next time you’re in an interaction, just lean back and try to be

as relaxed and comfortable as you can That includes doing things like

1

2

3

4

Do whatever makes you feel better For example, when I’m calling up

a girl for the first time, I used to lay down flat on the floor and take deep

breaths For some reason, it helped me relax more

Thou shall not stand up like a soldier Have you ever been guilty of

standing up too straight while you’re talking to a woman? Similar to how

you would stand and act if you’re talking to an authority figure? Most

guys take interactions with women too seriously They stand up so erect

that it’s almost too funny to watch They’re shoulders become tense and

they act all stiff to the point that they make themselves nervous If you’re

guilty of this, relax Women are human beings too They’re not some sort

of super human goddesses from outer space you know? They do the

same things you do They just exert more effort and time into looking

good

Thou shall keep thy composure at all times Have you ever been in

a situation gone bad? You probably didn’t notice at that time but

everything about you changed Your voice tone probably changed

The way you stood up probably changed Everything changed I used

to be that way every time I thought I got rejected by women I’d stutter,

become jittery, and eventually make a shameful exit The exact same

thing I did every time I experienced a mild confrontation It shows people

that you were emotionally affected by it Not good I’ve learned that if

you keep your composure and act as if nothing happened then you end

up maintaining control of the situation

Thou shall mirror her body language Mirroring her body language is a

technique used to increase rapport and comfort levels

Thou shall walk and move slow I modeled this behavior after guys that

were naturals when it came to dealing with women Everything they did

was almost too smooth They walked, talked, and moved slow They took

their time almost like they owned time And the more I started acting that

way, the more positive responses I got from women

5

6

7

8

TRY THIS OUT

Lean back

Feet spread apart

Don’t be too stiff

Don’t tense your shoulders up

Hands out of the pockets

Slow and confident movements

And make sure not to fall asleep

Give Before You Take

A lot of people are used to taking things from the world and from people I’ve been guilty of this as well

It’s sad and I see it happen every day Those one-way friendships where people just call you when they need something from you People that just ask favors all the time People that just keep asking question after question without really contributing toward the conversation

It happens so often that it’s become normal

Your job is to not be one of those guys

Here’s my view of the world:

“I am a man I move through the world with something to offer to everyone I offer positive and fun emotions My presences makes people feel better I bring fun and excitement to everyone I meet I talk about my life experiences and

my view on things because I just want to share my life with other people I give without really expecting anything in return I just like to give It makes me happy

At the same time I know my boundaries and I won’t be taken advantage of I’m the sweetest and coolest person you’ll ever meet I’ll take care of you and make you feel like you’re part of my family But once you betray my trust, that’s

a different story I am a man and I have something to offer the world…”

That’s how I view the world It’s also the reason why I can give a woman a compliment without seeming like I just want to get in her pants

That’s the reason why women instantly open up to me when I initiate a conversation with them

That’s the reason why I am who I am right now I am focused more on giving to

people rather than taking anything from them People sense this quality It’s rare

You should learn to cultivate it

TRY THIS OUT

Effective communication will open doors for you in this life And you’ll soon

realize that it opens women up to your ideas and messages as well

So if effective communication opens doors for you, then do you know what

makes you stick in her mind? Endlessly?