What is Communication?• Communication is the process of conveying information and meaning • Effective communication involves the ability to transmit and receive information with a hi
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Development
2d Edition Robert N Lussier and Christopher F Achua
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Communication, Coaching, and
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Learning Outcomes
• Oral message sending process
• Three parts of message receiving
process
• Paraphrasing
• Feedback
• Coaching model
• 5 Management conflict styles
• Conflict resolution model cuu duong than cong com
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Trang 5What is Communication?
• Communication is the process of
conveying information and
meaning
• Effective communication involves
the ability to transmit and
receive information with a high
probability that the intended
message is passed from sender
to receiver
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• The sharing of information
between individual or groups
Trang 7Is Communication an Important Leadership
Skill?
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Trang 8Is Communication an Important Leadership
Skill?
• Effective leaders are effective
communicators
• Organizations with effective
communications systems are more likely to be successful
• An important part of a
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a message, what is the first step you should
take?
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Trang 10When you want to send a
message, what is the first, very important, step you should take?
Plan the Message
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a Leader Plan?
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Trang 12What Messages Should
a Leader Plan?
• All Messages
– Oral, face-to-face – Oral, telephone
Trang 13Plan Your Messages
• Purpose of message (goal)?
Trang 14Develop Rapport State Communication Purpose
Transit Message Check Understanding
Oral Message Sending Process
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that a Message is
Understood?
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Trang 16Who Has the Primary Responsibility to Ensure that
a Message is Understood?
• The sender
– Knows what the message is
supposed to convey
• But this doesn’t let the
receiver off the hook
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Trang 18Don’t Forget to Analyze
Analyze what?
Trang 19Don’t Forget to Analyze
• Think about the message
• Translate it from symbols to
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– Words – Numbers – Graphs
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Trang 20What is the Most Powerful Method to Ensure that Messages
You Send are Understood?
Trang 21What is the Most Powerful Method to Ensure that Messages
You Send are
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having the receiver restate the message in his or her own words to ensure
that communication has
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understanding
• Give the
entire message followed by
have any questions?”
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Receivers feel ignorant
Receivers are ignorant
Reluctance to point out sender’s ignorance
4 Reasons
Why People
Do Not
Ask
Trang 25Paraphrasing Helps to Resolve These Problems
• There will still be problems
• But when paraphrasing is
done correctly
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Trang 26Paraphrasing is One type of - - -
(what) ?
Trang 27Paraphrasing is One type of - - -
(what) ?
• Feedback
– The process of verifying
messages and determining if objectives are being met
• Then what in the world is
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is “negative feedback”?
• Criticism
– No one really likes criticism – Effective leaders learn to deal
with criticism directed at them
• The best leaders ask for it
• It helps them to improve
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Trang 30So just what is this coaching thing all about?
Trang 31What is a Coach?
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Trang 32What is a Coach?
• A teacher
• Someone who shows an
individual or team how to improve skills and performance
– Is this ever a need in business or
other organizations?
So why do we always think in
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Give Specific Feedback
Focus on Behavior Not the Person
Don’t Criticize
Avoid Blame
and Embarrassment
Have Employees Assess Their
Own Performance
Coaching Guidelines
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Trang 36Job Instructional Training
(Coaching) Steps
Preparation of the trainee Trainer presentation of the task Trainer performance of the task
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Performance
2 Describe Desired Performance
3 Get a Commitment
to the Change
The Performance
Formula
(Coaching)
Also works
with conflict
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Trang 40What is Mentoring?
• A form of coaching
• Usually between an experienced
manager and a young manager
– To develop the protégé – Helps to build mentor’s power base
• May be formal (assigned) or
informal
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Trang 42What is Conflict?
A conflict exists
whenever people are in disagreement and opposition
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High Concern
for
Accommodating
Passive You Win, I Lose
Collaborating
Assertive You Win, I Win
Negotiating
Assertive You Win Some, I Win Some
Trang 44Why Should Leaders be Concerned with Conflict?
Trang 45Why Should Leaders be
Concerned with Conflict?
• Inevitable fact of life &
leadership
• Conflict Resolution is an
important skill of leadership
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Conflict occurs when two opposing parties have interests or goals that appear to be incompatible due to:
– Strong differences in values, beliefs,
or goals
– Competing for resources and rewards – Leaders acting in a manner inconsistent
Trang 47Conflict: Good or Evil?
• Can be organizational (work
– Can become institutionalized
• Live on long after the protagonists
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What are the Possible
Positive Effects?
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Possible Positive Effects:
• Increased effort
• Suppressed feelings get aired
• Better understanding
• Impetus for change
• Better decision making
• Key issues surfaced
• Critical thinking stimulated
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What are the Possible Negative Effects?
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Possible Negative Effects:
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Styles
• Avoiding
– Passive – Ignore it – Lose-lose
• Accommodating
– Passive – Cooperative (passive)
– Lose-win
• Forcing
– Aggressive
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Trang 54Initiating Conflict Resolution Model
Step 1 Plan a BCF (Behavior,
Consequences,Feelings) statement that maintains ownership of the problem.
Step 2 Present your BCF statement
and agree on the conflict.
Step 3 Ask for, and/or give,
Trang 55What is a Mediator?
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Trang 56What is a Mediator?
• A neutral third party who
helps resolve a conflict
• Acts as a facilitator or
go-between
• Helps the parties resolve
Trang 57What is a Arbitrator?
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Trang 58What is a Arbitrator?
• A neutral third party who
makes a binding decision to
Trang 60Discussion Question 2
What are the three parts
of a written outline?
O U T L I N E
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As an average, how many words should a sentence have, and how many
sentences should there be in
a paragraph?
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Which personality traits are associated with being close
to feedback?
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What are the four guidelines to getting feedback on messages?
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What is 360-degree feedback and are many organizations using it?
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Should a supportive working relationship be
a true friendship?
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Why doesn’t criticism work?
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How do you know when you are in a conflict?
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What is the difference between functional and dysfunctional conflict, and how does each affect
performance?
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What is meant by
maintaining ownership of
the problem ?
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What is the difference between a mediator and
an arbitrator?