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Planning a Wedding Becomes a Marriage of a Million Details

Written by Jerilyn Watson

11 June 2006

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Welcome to THIS IS AMERICA in VOA Special English I'm Steve Ember

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And I'm Barbara Klein This week weddings in America

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Each year, more than two million weddings take place in the United States The Association for Wedding Professionals International says more than eighty thousand million dollars is spent on those weddings And that does not include honeymoon travel for the newlyweds

Some people have big weddings and invite everyone they know Some have small, simple weddings and invite only their closest friends and family members And some elope They get married first and tell people later

Still another choice is a "destination wedding." These are popular now The bride and groom invite a small group of guests to travel to someplace special for the ceremony Think of it as a wedding and honeymoon all in one

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June is the beginning of summer It is also considered the traditional start of the wedding season

Hollywood has had a lot of fun with weddings In the summer of two thousand five there was the movie "Wedding Crashers." Owen Wilson and Vince Vaughn play two friends who trick their way into weddings Why? Simple: to meet women

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Australian model Narelle Payne in

wedding dress by fashion designer

Caroline Herrera

Many couples organize their weddings themselves But some hire a

wedding planner to organize everything for them The planner helps the

bride find a wedding dress as well as dresses for her bridesmaids

The planner helps find a place for the reception after the ceremony And the planner organizes all the details for the celebration, from the flowers to the food to the entertainment

In the movie "The Wedding Planner," Jennifer Lopez stars as a highly organized planner with a suddenly disorganized personal life She falls in love with a doctor, played by Matthew

McConaughey Only he turns out to be the man who is supposed to marry her most important client (SOUND)

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Hollywood has also had fun with wedding planners In the Steve Martin and Diane Keaton movie "Father of the Bride," Martin Short plays their daughter's "wedding coordinator."

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Traditionally the bride's parents pay for the wedding But Americans now get married at an older age than they once did So working couples might pay for some or all of the wedding themselves “What

a wonderful idea,” once joked a real-life father of the bride

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Couples can have a religious ceremony Or they can have a civil wedding before a judge or other public official Or they can have both The couple might also read special vows they have written for each other

Many ceremonies share common customs For example, the bride may wear a long white dress and have a white veil over her face The veil is pulled back when the newlyweds kiss at the end of the ceremony

The groom traditionally wears a tuxedo If the suit is black and the shirt is white, picture in your mind

a penguin A nervous penguin

Jennifer Lopez and Matthew McConaughey in "The Wedding Planner"

Steve Martin in "Father of the

Bride"

An old tradition says brides should wear something old, something new, something borrowed and something blue These four things are supposed to bring good luck

Different cultures have their own traditions At African-American weddings, for example, there is

"jumping the broom." This is an old tradition where couples jump over a broomstick laid on the ground

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America is known as a nation of immigrants Each group brings its own wedding customs and traditions to the mix But one tradition at most weddings is music Many people hire D.J.s, disc jockeys, to play recorded dance music A wedding might also have live music

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Many couples hire small chamber groups to play classical music before and at the end of their

wedding ceremony One musical tradition is "Trumpet Voluntary."

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Another classical favorite at weddings is “Sheep May Safely Graze” by Johann Sebastian Bach: (MUSIC)

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Some couples want to get married in a famous place like Disneyland or Las Vegas The eightieth floor of the Empire State Building in New York City

is a popular place for weddings Couples can enter a competition for a chance to get married there on Valentine’s Day

Couples sometimes hold their wedding in a romantic place where they met Or they choose a place that will not be too far for all the guests to travel Or they hear about a beautiful place where many other people have gotten married

Many couples get married on the beach in Hawaii and the mainland, or travel to Mexico or an island

in the Caribbean

With a destination wedding, the celebration often lasts three days All the guests are invited to a dinner on the night before the wedding Then there is the ceremony and the meal that follows And often there is an early morning breakfast the following day

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Thanks to the Internet, couples can make a lot of their wedding preparations online Technology has also made it easier for other people to decide what to give them for a wedding gift

The future newlyweds can go to stores and choose the gifts they would like to receive The

information is entered into a list on a wedding registry at each store Then their friends and relatives can choose what to buy

This means the bride and groom get things they want It also means they avoid many of the things they do not want – like three toasters for their morning bread

Some couples planning a wedding create their own Web sites so they can provide information to the people they invite

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With all the planning that goes into some weddings, it is easy to forget what the event is all about A Protestant minister in Maryland advises couples to remember one thing Their wedding is over quickly, but their feelings for each other have to last a lifetime

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Our program was written by Jerilyn Watson and produced by Caty Weaver I'm Steve Ember VOICE TWO:

And I’m Barbara Klein Read and listen to our programs at voaspecialenglish.com And we invite you to listen against next week for THIS IS AMERICA in VOA Special English