New common sense family planning policy and sex ratio in viet nam

New “Common Sense”: Family-Planning Policy and Sex Ratio in Viet Nam Findings from a qualitative study in Bac Ninh, Ha Tay and Binh Dinh By The Institute for Social Development Studies

New “Common Sense”: Family-Planning Policy and

Sex Ratio in Viet Nam

Findings from a qualitative study in Bac Ninh, Ha Tay and Binh Dinh

By The Institute for Social Development Studies Undertaken at the request of UNFPA

4th Asia Pacific Conference on Reproductive and Sexual Health and Rights

TABLE OF CONTENTS

1 BACKGROUND 1

2 RESEARCH DESIGN AND DATA COLLECTION 1

2.1 Desk Review 2

2.2 Content Analysis of Cultural and Media Materials 2

2.3 Field Research 2

2.3.1 Bac Ninh 2

2.3.2 Ha Tay 2

2.3.3 Binh Dinh 2

2.3.4 Procedure 3

2.4 Limitations of the Inquiry 3

3 LITERATURE REVIEW 4

3.1 Scholarly Works on Asia’s Sex-Ratio Imbalance 4

3.2 Research on Population and SRB in Viet Nam 5

3.3 Manuals and Common Beliefs 6

4 FINDINGS 6

4.1 Pre-Natal Sex-Selection Practices 7

4.1.1 Pre-conception methods 7

4.1.2 Post-conception methods 7

4.1.3 Post-birth arrangements 8

4.2 Factors Influencing Pre-Natal Sex Selection 9

4.2.1 Son preference 9

4.2.2 Implications of population policy and family-planning programme 12

4.2.3 Utilizing ultrasound as a basis for covert abortion services 14

4.3 Perceptions and Understandings of Imbalanced Sex Ratio 15

5 DISCUSSION AND TENTATIVE RECOMMENDATIONS 16

5.1 Similar Strategies, Varied Perceptions 16

5.2 The New “Common Sense” 17

5.3 Recommendations 17

5.3.1 Take it seriously 17

5.3.2 Spreading positive messages 18

5.3.3 Emphasizing equal access 18

5.3.4 More research 18

6 REFERENCE 19

7 APPENDIX 21

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Sex-ratio imbalance has affected a number of countries throughout the Asia and Pacific region, including China and India However, this phenomenon did not attract public attention as a serious issue with significant demographic, social and human-rights implications in these countries until recently, when the magnitude of sex ratios at birth reported in regions of China and India had reached values above 120 boys born per 100 girls It is anticipated that, in addition to the impact on the national labour-force structure and economy, one of the major social consequences of this imbalance will be millions of males in the region being faced with increased challenges in finding a spouse There are sure to be many other society-wide impacts, as well

The issue of pre-natal sex selection in Viet Nam has been increasingly addressed by the national media, and has become an issue of growing public concern In UNFPA’s Seventh Country Programme (CP7), the issue of pre-natal sex selection was listed as a priority for advocacy and policy dialogue within Viet Nam’s Advocacy and Influencing Policy agenda According to the 2006 Population Change, Labour Force and Family Planning Survey, conducted by the General Statistic Office (GSO) at the household level for about 30,000 births in Viet Nam, the sex ratio at birth (SRB) was 110 nationwide (see Appendix, Table 1).1 Nevertheless, due to the small sample size in each province, this survey could not provide SRB by provinces To obtain a larger sample size for each province, UNFPA supported GSO in collecting data of births delivered at health facilities Data of this survey showed two things: first, that SRB was likewise 110 nationwide; and second, that out of 47 provinces with large sample size (more than 9,600 births a year), 28 provinces had SRB values above 110

These two surveys did not provide qualitative information on sex ratio at birth, however, which

is needed for an understanding of the current situation in Viet Nam, as well as to suggest lines of further investigation As such, the primary purpose of this study is to examine the issue of pre-natal sex selection in Viet Nam: the issue, its causes and its influencing factors Together with the findings of quantitative surveys on SRB conducted by GSO, qualitative results will be used for advocacy activities, policy dialogue and planning by the Vietnamese government The research framework of this qualitative study was developed with technical assistance from the Country Support Team/UNFPA and UNFPA Viet Nam country office The Institute for Social Development Studies (ISDS) was requested by UNFPA to carry out this study The specific objectives were to:

• Explore the existence of pre-natal sex-selection practices

• Identify the factors influencing desired family size and sex composition of children

• Describe the perceptions and understandings surrounding the issue of imbalance of sex

ratio This report presents key findings of the study These findings, along with the interpretations drawn from them, are those of the research team, and do not necessarily reflect the views of other stakeholders involved in this research

Various methods were adopted in order to collect qualitative information for the study, including desk review, content analysis and field research Field data were collected in Binh Dinh, Ha Tay and Bac Ninh provinces over a one-month period starting in early July 2007 These three provinces were purposively selected (in consultation with the UNFPA Viet Nam office) based on their normal or excessively high SRB, so as to provide as wide a spectrum of views and opinions regarding this issue as possible In order to facilitate the investigation, a mixed set of research tools were developed These consisted of an analysis framework for desk review and content analysis, as well as varied guidelines for both in-depth interviews and focus-group discussion (FGD) with stakeholders and community members Short descriptions of the research process and the methods adopted are presented in brief below

1 Sex ratio is measured as the number of males per 100 females Normal SRB values are in the range of 105-106

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Before and during fieldwork, the team leader and other members of the research team compiled and reviewed all accessible documents, published studies, service statistics, government surveys and other documents at both the local and national level The reviewed materials included, among others, the Ordinance of Population, the Law of Gender Equality, the Labor Code, the Marriage and Family Law, previous GSO reports, published studies on attitudes of son preference in Viet Nam conducted by Vietnamese and international scholars, and the general reports of three communal and district Women’s Unions and Committees of Population, Families and Children that were collected during the fieldwork

2.2 Content Analysis of Cultural and Media Materials

Throughout the research process, the team tracked relevant coverage and debates in both paper and online newspapers and magazines, including Thanh Nien (Youth), Lao Dong (Labour), Vnexpress, Tap chi Phu Nu (Women’s Magazine) and Gia dinh va Xa hoi (Family and Society) In addition, some manual-type books on how to give birth to a child of desired sex were either bought or downloaded for further analysis

is VND 3.265 million (Statistical Yearbook, 2004) Being physically the smallest province in the country, Bac Ninh also has the highest population density of any province On average, there are more than 1,200 people per square kilometre Bac Ninh was selected for this study for its high SRB: 123 boys

to 100 girls, according to the Health Facility Survey by GSO in 2006

2.3.2 Ha Tay

Ha Tay province lies to the Southwest of and at the entrance to Hanoi The population of Ha Tay in 2005 was 2,525,700 people, of which about 48 per cent are men and 90 per cent live in the rural areas As of the end of 2005, there were about 46,698 girls with a general education, accounting for 38.9 per cent of the total number of pupils; as well as 1,046 doctors, 1,657 physicians, 722 nurses and 361 midwives (Statistical Yearbook, 2006) Ha Tay’s agricultural output value, at 1994 prices, is VND 3.153 trillion The monthly average income per capita in 2001-2002, at 2003 prices, is VND 3.127 million (Statistical Yearbook, 2004) The province has a density of 1,100 people per square kilometre Ha Tay’s SRB is 112, lower than that of Bac Ninh, but still well above the national average

2.3.3 Binh Dinh

Binh Dinh province has 1,556,700 people, and is located on the coast of the country’s central region, with a density of about 258 people per square kilometre – significantly lower than in the previous provinces under study (Statistical Yearbook, 2006) The male population represents 48.7 per cent of the province’s total As of 31 December 2005, there are about 28,360 girls with a general education, accounting for 49.4 per cent of the total number of pupils There are 728 doctors, 646 physicians, 930 nurses and 246 midwives in the locality Approximately 74.9 per cent of the population is living in the rural areas (Statistical Yearbook, 2006) Binh Dinh’s agricultural output value, at 1994, prices is VND 1.660 trillion The province’s average monthly income per capita in 2001-

2002, at 2003 prices, is VND 2.978 million VND (Statistical Yearbook, 2004) Binh Dinh has a more moderate SRB, at 107

2 One million Vietnamese Dongs (VND) are equivalent to US$ 61.6 (September 2007)

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2.3.4 Procedure

2.3.4.1 Interviews with officials

With an introductory letter from the National Committee for Population, Families and Children (NCPFC), the team contacted the Provincial Committee for Population, Families and Children (PCPFC)

in each of the three provinces In turn, they coordinated with the relevant District Committee for Population, Families and Children (DCPFC) to select three communes or/and towns for study These ultimately included Vo Cuong urban commune, Bac Ninh city in Bac Ninh province, Tuy Phuoc town in Binh Dinh, and Thach Xa rural commune and Thach That district in Ha Tay province

In each locality, at district and commune levels, the team attempted to interview a Chairman of District/Commune People’s Committee (the individual in charge of socio-cultural affairs),

Vice-as well Vice-as a population cadre and a cadre from the local women’s union At the provincial level, the researchers conducted in-depth interviews with the provincial Vice-Chairman of Socio-Cultural Affairs,

an obstetrician and an ultrasound practitioner in the provincial general hospital At the national level, interviews were conducted with a population official, an obstetrician and an ultrasound practitioner (See Appendix, Table 3)

The investigators faced some difficulty in Tuy Phuoc, Binh Dinh province, when the team was unable to interview the Vice-Chairman of Binh Dinh People’s Committee Instead, we attempted to interview a private obstetrical doctor We asked one official in the Provincial Center for Reproductive Health Care to facilitate introductions, but they declined to participate, citing either work pressure or

an inability to talk about unfamiliar subjects or subjects that may harm their business Therefore, a total of 22 informants were finally interviewed

2.3.4.2 Interviews with community members

In each province, the team also conducted six case studies, and organized another eight group discussions (hereafter FGDs) Individuals were chosen with the collaboration of the local population cadre, based on their marital status, family size and sex composition of their children Specifically, there was a group of men and a group of women from families with at least two sons; a group of men and a group of women from families with at least two girls; a group of single male and a group of single female youths; and a group of men and a group of women from families with mixed-sex offspring In addition, we also interviewed two families with only sons, two families with only daughters and another two families with both sons and daughters In total, 18 case studies were conducted and

focus-24 FGDs carried out, involving 192 participants

Themes discussed varied with the different stakeholders and participants, but mainly included the family-building process, population policies, contraceptive use, abortion history (including for sex-selective purposes), the value of sons and daughters, attitudes of son preference, strategies undertaken

to have a child of the desired sex, justifications with respect to that desire, the perception of and attitudes towards sex-ratio imbalance and son preference, fertility expectation, and so on

The recorded material were transcribed verbatim, analyzed and collated by the team in late July 2007 The report was written by the team leaders, in close consultation with other team members

As mentioned previously, opinions expressed in the report are those of the team only

2.4 Limitations of the Inquiry

The key limitation of this inquiry lies in its relatively small scale As mentioned, only three communes and/or districts in three provinces were selected for study It is worth noting that the sample was selected on purpose, and therefore no claim is being made regarding the representativeness of those provinces studied, or the possibility of generalising this information across the wider population However, as common opinions do tend to exist across different districts and provinces, the findings can provide insights into the actual situation regarding SRB in Viet Nam

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3.1 Scholarly Works on Asia’s Sex-Ratio Imbalance

Issues surrounding SRB imbalances throughout Asia have attracted much scholarly and political concern A number of recent research reports have suggested that various countries in the region are recording a notable deficit of daughters As reviewed by Daniele Belanger and Khuat Thi Hai Oanh (2007), in 2000 about 95 million girls and women were reported “missing” throughout the world, with 38 million missing in India and 43 million in China According to the authors, sex-selective abortion to eliminate female foetuses has been identified as the most important direct cause of missing females, particularly for China, India and South Korea They also point out that there has been “a radical change” in discrimination against girls in these countries, as the discriminatory process shifts from female disadvantage in mortality in infancy and childhood to female disadvantage in “natality” (the ratio of live births in an area to the population of that area)

As suggested by some social scientists (Das Gupta, 1999; cf Belanger and Khuat, 2007) the avoidance of allowing female births is but one of several possible consequences of the preference for sons, which is widespread in many Asian countries In these societies, a variety of discourses have sprung up that prioritize sons’ superiority to girls in terms of their social, economic and symbolic value (rhetoric that is rooted in the patrilineal kinship systems of these countries) This has the inevitable effect of making some families resort to abortion, and even infanticide, to ensure that they have a least one boy

Researchers have also argued that Asia’s rising proportion of sons has been associated with the introduction of government population and family-planning policies, which were aiming at reducing fertility rates Research shows that, in being subjected to state “bio-power”3, couples are faced with a dilemma between a strong desire to have at least one son, and external demands to limit the family size (Belanger, 2002; Belanger et al., 2007; Hesketh and Xing, 2006) Consequently, the limitation of female births helps the desired number of sons to remain within the reconfigured family-size norm

Sex ratio at birth started to rise significantly with the introduction of ultrasound technology, which led to an opportunity for sex testing – though doing so was technically illegal – and was often followed by abortion for sex choice South Korea was a good example of this phenomenon It was the first country to report very high SRBs, because the widespread use of sex-selective technology there had preceded that in other Asian countries (Hesketh and Xing, 2006) In the case of China, as noted

by Banister, “the combination of continuing son preference, low fertility and technology is causing the shortage of girls” (Banister 2004:13; cf Bossen, 2007) It is also noted that the gender of the preceding child strongly influenced sex selection (Hesketh and Xing, 2006)

The existing literature has indicated that the loss of female births due to illegal pre-natal sex determination, sex-selective abortions and female infanticide will affect the observed sex ratios both at birth and at young ages This will subsequently create an imbalance in a population’s sex structure in the future, resulting in potentially serious social problems Hesketh and Xing (2006) speculate that there will be an excess of males in large parts of Asia over the next 20 years, which suggests that large numbers of men will remain single, be unable to have families, and will have little outlet for sexual energy This will be due to, among other things, these males’ low socio-economic class and limited education Such a situation holds the potential for increased levels of antisocial behaviour, ultimately presenting a threat to stability and social order An additional problem can be seen in the increasing cases of women and girls being trafficked both for a burgeoning sex industry and for marriage In addition, a concurrent rise in homosexual activity can be observed (Hesketh and Xing, 2006)

3 Biopower was a term originally coined by the French philosopher Michel Foucault to refer to the practice of

modern states and their regulation of their subjects through “an explosion of numerous and diverse techniques for achieving the subjugations of bodies and the control of populations” It has been used to refer to practices of public health, regulation of heredity, and risk regulation, among many other things often linked less directly with literal physical health (Wikipedia.org/wiki/biopower)

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3.2 Research on Population and SRB in Viet Nam

In 1986, the government of Viet Nam launched the Doi Moi, a controlled transition towards a market economy The ongoing reforms have produced a positive impact on the country’s development: the gross national product per capita is increasing, and reached US$375 in 2000; GNP growth was one

of the strongest in the world by the mid-1990s, at around 9.5 percent in 1996; and inflation has steadily slowed down (Hong, 2003) Promulgated at the same period as Doi Moi was the government’s new family-planning programme (referred to as the one-to-two child policy), which has resulted in later marriages and smaller family sizes In addition to increased information, education and communication efforts, a wide range of family-planning services has been made available from the central to local levels Furthermore, the first National Population and Development Strategy, for 1993-

2000, set a target to reduce the population growth rate from 2.2 per cent to 1.7 per cent, with a focus

on the one-to-two child policy The total fertility rate (defined as the average number of children a woman has) declined from 3.8 in 1989 to 2.3 in 1999 (NCPFC, 2000; MOH, 2000) Findings from the

2006 survey show that fertility now stands at 2.09 children per woman, which is just below the level

of replacement (GSO, 2006; UNFPA, 2007)

A major contributor to this achievement is the use of contraception, especially of modern methods, the prevalence rate of which increased from 41.27 per cent in 1993 to 67.1 percent in 2006 (GSO, 2006) Although abortion is not one of the official family-planning methods, it has been used by many people to limit family size or to space-out the births of children Abortion has been legal and available on request in Viet Nam since the early 1960s, reflecting the Government’s commitment to provide reproductive choice for women (WHO, 1999) According to Ministry of Health regulations, abortion, which is permitted for pregnancies of 4-12 weeks (and sometimes later), is only to be performed at state health centres by certified doctors, following pregnancy tests In contrast, menstrual regulation, which is a simple procedure for pregnancy of less than four weeks, can be performed in all health institutions, including commune health centres, where there are assistant doctors who have been trained in this procedure (GSO, 1996; MOH, 2001, p 38-60) Private clinics are prohibited from performing abortions (MOH, 2001, p 109)

The available Ministry of Health service statistics indicate that abortions are sought in the public sector by more than one million women in Viet Nam each year, with many women undergoing repeated abortions The data also indicate that the number of abortions has increased dramatically in subsequent years (WHO, 1999) According to the most recently available statistics (Vy et al., 2007), this rate, while currently falling, remains at 34.7 per cent for every 100 live births As per the Programme of Action of the 1994 International Conference on Population and Development, the Government of Viet Nam has a commitment to ensuring the quality of reproductive-health services, and considers both reducing the recourse to abortion among women and increasing the safety of abortion procedures to be national health priorities (WHO, 1999)

There is also growing concern that the SRB is becoming skewed in Viet Nam (UNFPA, 2007) The country’s 1999 census was perceived as a touchstone in terms of the interest that it sparked on issues of unbalanced SRB among international and national scholars (Nguyen Van Phai, 2006) Subsequent research has indicated a growing sex imbalance without interference from policy, particularly in certain provinces (Belanger, 2003; Santow, 2006) Mere Kisekka (2006) presents an overview of Viet Nam’s SRB based on presentations by Pham Ba Nhat, from the Viet Nam Commission for Population, Family and Children, and Nguyen Van Phai, from the General Statistics Office, at the Workshop on Sharing Experiences on Projection and Policy on SRB in Hanoi The author points out that the country’s SRB increased from 105 to 107 during 1989-1999, and to between 107 and 108 during 2002-2006 SRB was particularly high in 16 provinces/cities (from 115 to 128 in 1999) and in 20 other provinces/cities (from 111-120 in 1999-2006) The author further notes that, for the first birth, SRB in Viet Nam is even higher than that of China and South Korea (112 in Viet Nam, and between 105 and

107 in China and South Korea) From the second birth, there is also a clear increase in the sex ratio in Viet Nam if couples do not have a son in the first birth, a trend similar to what has been observed in China and South Korea

One primary cause suggested for the increase in SRB in Viet Nam is the complex interweaving

of Confucianism and patriarchy, which together produce a system that favours sons (Kisekka, 2006) Like in other Asian countries, son preference is pervasive in Viet Nam Haughton and Haughton (1995) cite a popular Confucian saying: “If you have a son, you can say you have a descendant But you cannot say so if you have even 10 daughters” – a sentiment the authors back up with an additional review of related research The respondents in Ba’s (1992) research insist that they feel compelled to have at

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least one son, despite their understanding of the need for two-child families Similarly, Loi (1991) reports that many of his respondents shared the perception that families should have at least one son, and therefore should continue bearing children until a son is born Remarkably, many others reported wanting at least two sons, to ensure that at least one will survive to adulthood Haughton and Haughton (1995) conclude that, although fertility has substantially decreased during the last few decades, reproductive behaviour still reflects families’ strong desire to have a son They also point out that there are two basic explanations underpinning this pervasive attitude: that sons are necessary, first, to support their parents in old age; and second, to carry on the family line Belanger (2002) reports similar reasons for the continuing strong preference for sons

3.3 Manuals and Common Beliefs

There is much

information available in Viet

Nam today on how parents can

select the sex of their children

These documents range from

translated versions of foreign

manuals, to some guides written

by local doctors (Le Ha, 2007),

under such titles as What

Pregnant Women Should Know,

99 Tips for Pregnancy and

Delivery, Nutrition for Mother

and Babies, Manual Book for

Mother and Babies, Manual

Book for Pregnancy and Delivery,

etc Each of these includes a

chapter on sex selection In

Giving Birth to Children of

Desired Sex, Linh Son advises couples to wash using a weak alkali liquid before coitus, with the intention of facilitating “Y sperm” and weakening “X sperm” (cited by Le Ha, 2007) Le Ha also points out that newspapers have taken an active role in sex-selection consultancy In Women World’s Magazine (No 34/02), Vu Huong Van advises that couples abstain from coitus many days before ovulation, and eat more salt, meat, fish, potatoes and so on for three months in advance in order to have a son (Le Ha, 2007)

At the same time, modern technology, such as ultrasound, is also being used to discover the sex of the foetus, and some couples choose to have an abortion if they find out that the baby is a girl

In Viet Nam, particularly in big cities, ultrasound and abortion services are now legal and convenient, although a Population Ordinance (officially passed in January 2003) and a Government-issued decree (passed in October 2006) prohibit the identification of a foetus’s sex, as well as sex-selective abortions Despite this legal framework, as indicated in Daniele and Khuat’s research (2007), some couples in Viet Nam continue to resort to sex-selective abortion in order to attain a desired composition of children

There is currently a lack of precise data on how Viet Nam’s social and economic changes have impacted on SRB – if, indeed, they have made any difference at all Much more research is needed, especially of a qualitative nature, if we are to properly address the various social, economic and cultural ramifications that these changes are likely to instigate in coming years Only by acquiring more information will we be able to respond to the predicted upheavals in family structure, and, therefore, in the broader social structure

This investigation identified certain problems, causes and factors underpinning pre-natal selection, as well as the understandings of people in the study provinces on issues of sex-ratio imbalances

sex-There are “1001 books” on how to have children of the desired sex

One of the common strategies mentioned by both women and men is the consumption of certain foods in order to make the women’s egg fertile and men’s sperm stronger Some of these foods appear to have gained their reputation due to their shape rather than any proven record of promoting the birth of more sons As the following quotes illustrate, many parents are prepared to undergo significant ordeals in order to get what they want, even to the extent of combining myth and science in creative ways:

I don’t know if it works, but my younger sister has had three daughters and now she has a son The only method applied is to eat salted fish She told me that she just ate salted fish and nothing else Even when she could not swallow it, she talked herself into eating it

FGD with women who have only daughters, Bac Ninh

A woman who had two girls followed by a boy said that she used to eat bean sprouts and the testicles

of young, big chickens

FGD with married women who have both daughters and sons, Binh Dinh

To make sperm strong, I often eat foods that have Vitamin E, such as bean sprouts, beans or pumpkin FGD with men who have both daughters and sons, Binh Dinh

Many expectant parents also combine traditional experiences with the advice of doctors

If mothers want a boy, they can eat either salty or insipid foods That is the science of Vietnamese traditional medicine If they want a girl, people eat less salt […]

At the onset of the ovulation process, the husband and wife should have sexual relations following the advice of doctors

FGD with women who have only sons, Bac Ninh

The findings of this study show that the awareness of people in rural areas regarding modern science has improved significantly in recent decades This can be seen in the reported practice of seeking help from medical experts or buying guidebooks for the purpose of sex selection Ironically, though, the study finds that modern science tends to perpetuate traditional ideologies: people are seeking and applying scientific information and methods in order to have children of the desired sex

People who already have a girl often visit doctors in order to take medicine to have a boy Nowadays, many people do this, or they measure their body’s temperature when they have sexual relations, in order to have a boy [ ] [S]ome people read books […] to have a boy

Female, age 37, mother of three daughters, Bac Ninh

The study found respondents who thought that “good” sex, in which both partners are sexually pleased and excited, is a fundamental requirement for having sons

In order to have sons, couples should know how to eat and have sex properly One has to refrain from frequent sex.[…] When having coitus, there should be much excitement The more excitement both members of the couple have, the higher the possibility they will have sons

FGD with men who have both sons and daughter, Ha Tay

4.1.2 Post-conception methods

Modern technologies, particularly ultrasound and abortion, are also reported in order to select the sex

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of children

Honestly, my first child was a girl I didn’t use any methods for the second child, yet I would have to abort it [ ] For the second child, I had to select, calculate

Female, obstetrician, Bac Ninh

Normally, those women who are expecting a third child and already have two girls want first to know the sex of the foetus Walking into the ultrasound room, they immediately ask, “Doctor, please scan and tell me if it is a boy or a girl I have had already two girls,” sometimes adding, “If it is a girl, I will abort it.”

Female, ultrasound practitioner, Bac Ninh

A family had three girls, and they wanted to have one more child, but they didn’t know whether it would be a boy or a girl After three months of pregnancy, the wife came to have an ultrasound

scanning The doctor told her that it was a girl After that, the husband said, given that the foetus was already three months, if it aborted it would be very pitiable for the child, and also wouldn’t be good for the wife’s health So, he said that they would wait for a month more If it was still a girl, they would give

it a name and they would abort

FGDs with women who have only sons, Bac Ninh

A female doctor in a central obstetrical hospital in Hanoi has confirmed that, among those women who request abortion at a late stage in their pregnancy, there are also clients who seek abortion for the purpose of sex selection

Some people came here and [told] me honestly: “I already have two girls, and this child is also a girl, according to the ultrasound result.” They deliberately waited until the foetus was big enough to make sure it was a girl In many cases, the doctor sent them home, but they came back some weeks later and said, “I had a son and a daughter, so I have to abort this foetus because of financial problems.”

Female, obstetrician, Central Hospital

The study found that some women do not apply any of the above-mentioned scientific interventions, but instead wait until they naturally have a son

Some days ago, while I was on duty, there was a woman who had given birth to three daughters, but she was determined not to be sterilized […] She wanted to reserve her fertility to have another birth Female, national obstetric doctor, Hanoi

4.1.3 Post-birth arrangements

Adopting one’s own babies is a favoured strategy to negotiate with the small-family norm

There are many people who go through illicit birth-giving, then adopt their baby again

Male, political official, Bac Ninh

Some women allow their husband to have out-of-wedlock sons or to marry a second wife

They may go to find a woman who can have a son, and he would tell her that his first wife had only girls He would only have to talk to his family, and they would allow him to go If the baby is a girl, he will be responsible, and if the baby is a boy, he will have more responsibility

FGDs with women who have only sons, Bac Ninh

Some women think that their responsibility is to have a son for their husbands If they can’t have a son, they are disregarded If they don’t want to have a lot of children, they may find solutions to liberate their husbands – to have a son with another woman

FGD with unmarried women, Bac Ninh

One case study, of a Mrs Tham, is a good illustration of the various strategies that women adopt to select the desired sex of their child (see Box 1)